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2012-02-09T01:47:00.000-08:00

Abhi Mujh me Kahin.. very meaningful song

2012-02-04T03:40:00.000-08:00

It had been very long time I could not write anything to my personal blog.
There are many things in my mind but in a very short cut, I thought to post a very short postings about whatever is happening around me.
I was listening songs from Agneepath (in fact watched a special screening of the movie for our company employee)
I liked all the song except the Chikni Chameli. Ajay Atul deserve special congrats for creating something original and one of the best music. Amitabh Bhattachrya also deserve special mention for the excellent lyrics. All singers has sung the song well but out of all the song, one touched my heart a lot. I am posting it here. I found it very close to my heart.

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Abhi mujh mein kahin
Baaki thodi si hai zindagi
Jagi dhadkan nayi
Jaana zinda hoon main toh abhi
Kuch aisi lagan iss lamhe mein hai
Yeh lamha kahaan tha mera

Ab hai saamne
Ishe chhuu loon zara
Marr jaaun ya jee loon zaraaa
Khushiyaan choom loon
Yaa ro loon zara
Marr jaaun ya jee loon zaraa

Hoo abhi mujh mein kahin
Baaki thodi si hai zindagi

Hoo…

dhoop mein jalte hue tan koo
Chhaya pedh ki mil gayi
Roothe bacche ki hansi jaise
Phuslane se phir khil gayi
Kuch aisa hi mehsoos dil ko ho raha hai
Barson ke puraane zakhmon pe marham laga sa hai

Kuch ehsaan hai,
Iss lamhe mein hai
Ye lamha kahaan tha meraa
Ab hai saamne.. isse chhoo loon zara
Marr jaaun ya jee loo zara
Khushiyaan choom loon
Ya ro loon zara
Marr jaaun ya jee loon zara

Dor se tooti patang jaisi
Thi yeh zindagaani meri
Aaj hoon kal ho mera naho
Har din thi kahaani meri
Ek bandhan naya peeche seh ab mujhko bulaye
Aane wale kal ki kyun fhikar mujhko kyun sataa jaaye

Ik aisi chubhan, iss lamhe mein hai
Yeh lamha kahaan tha mera
Ab hai saamne.. isse chhoo loon zara
Marr jaaun ya jee loon zara
Khushiyaan choom loon
Ya roh loon zara
Mar jaaun ya jee loon zara

This is really a motivational song. I love this

Never trust people blindly

2011-11-01T03:19:00.000-07:00

Hi,

I do not know how to start and and what to tell

It was one of the worst human experience for me specially about YOU and your friend A.......

I never imagined such an inhuman treatment.

Whatever you do, I am never going to loose my originality and whatever I am, it also doesn't matter to me what kind of image people create for me because TRUTH is like a sunlight. in the darkness of LIE it might hide for some days but finally it is going to come out.

I tried to be honest in my way, action and relationship. YOU and ..... told everybody in the world that I HAD BAD EYES ON ..... (I do not want to take name as everybody from us know that about whom we are talking)

It is ridiculous. Tomorrow, you may say that I had bad eyes on YOU too.

My trust has broken one more time.

For me, CARE matters a lot. I am attached to everybody who shower care upon me and who UNDERSTAND me and sometime, it happens, people show that they RESPECT me, my value and THINKING and they PRETEND it. I blindly believe and I pay the price. I learn GREAT lesson from such people.

I honestly supported you when everybody, including your family members were against you. I did not care about my own family and the entire world and on the road I fought with your Jijaji for your rights and you were the person who was involve in giving bad name to me and my relationship. Was it your humanity? Well done.

Well, for me marriage was not just a name of husband, wife, roaming here and there and having sex. For me, it was a life long relationship of trust, care and respect which I say mutual respect, mutual trust and mutual care. How did you and A.... came to the conclusion that I had bad eyes on her, you only know. I do not remember any single incident where I tried to outrage her or your modesty (and as far as I remember, we were brother and sister). Yes, she was showing care, a lot of care and were "sharing" a lot of thing, so I used to do it, so I opened up my everything and so even I told her that it is better to marry a "known" person than an unknown. Where am I wrong if believing on her word "I feel secure and most comfortable with you, you are my every thing" I put proposal for marriage? Where am I wrong if as a true friend if I share her the possible danger or negative outcome of my marriage on the basis of my bad experience of the behaviour of my would be life partner and my that fear came to true? Finally I realised today that my knowledge about the person was wrong. So much cheating, so much backstabbing, so much infidelity, so much dishonesty in my relationship? I used to delete all the personal messages so people should not misunderstand and my messages with the half bakd truth was shown to everybody. If I need to have a bad eye on anybody, remember, I was and am in HR department,working with such an organisation where there were many women or girls and I could do anything. I never tried to take advantage of that. Why am I clarifying all these to you anyway?

Well, my sisters are great and caring enough that they never revealed this the BLACK truth to me not to hurt me. But finally of the various people with whom you both made my mockery finally opened this to me- knowingly or accidentally.

I used to trust you a lot and thought you are one of the most trustworthy person in my life. I was wrong. My family is the best who trusted me and nobody else.
Whatever A did was wrong but it has not harmed me at all. I am not a looser, neither my reputation has gone nor people have stopped believing me. They trust my honesty and I have many friends who are caring for me for years and accept my truth. But I had never expected such a rubbish thing from you.

Anyway, you are one of my greatest teacher. you have taught me to be very careful in choosing and trusting people and she has taught me to be very careful in believing people and to share.

Whatever we do, we get return for that in this world only. I am not sad, I am not in pain because whatever I got, got from here, whatever I gave, I gave from whatever I get from people. I get lot of care, trust and love from people so I am able to give the same things to others too and if few people do such thing with me, it does not make me negative rather it makes me more wiser and perfect.

Thanks a lot for your teaching and whatever you gave me.

Be happy

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"The world suffers a lot. Not because of the violence of bad people,
But because of the silence of good people!"

--Napoleon

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Medical Council of India and single entrance exam

2011-10-20T00:50:00.001-07:00

First of all, the move is worth to be welcomes due to certain reason I personally think

Education in India is a profit guaranteed business and the institutes run by politicians like Bharti Vidyapeeth, D Y Patil many "deemed Universities" who do not have even a quality infrastructure of running a college is making money by this way.
They float their own "entrance exam" where below the table you may need to pay lakhs of Rs. to do MBBS. And the result, when this MBBS pass out will come from the college his her first focus should be on getting return on this investment of 6 years and 40 lakhs. So he will prescribe unnecessary medicines, he will (I am using he for both male and female) ask for surgery every time, he will charge excess fee and the healthcare is now out of reach of 60% of masses in our nation.

The single entrance exam may control this and the admission may happen in pure merit basis (I am using MAY because these politician and businessmen ( both institute owners and students will find a way from it) may found a way from it. The chances of getting more deserving student are higher in the medical colleges.

I am against of removing negative marking because in our country, the aptitude test or the medical or any other examination pattern for entrance into a course is faulty. If negative marking will be there, the students will not opt for wrong answers and will choose only the correct answer. In this case those student who are just guessing and opting for the answer may not get entry into the seat.

Further, just a single entrance exam is not a solution. Here, the students should be given the option to choose 20 institutes in their priority list. There should a single selection committee and not at all any colleges should be allowed to take admission. Even for the management and NRI quota, the single committee should only have rights to select the candidate.

I do not think any MBBS seat remains vacant in any institute. When people are ready pay 36 lakhs and above for the entire MBBS course and the seats are sold like a hot cake for lesser price (and the patient finally pay the price for their education).

Out of this topic: The only way to control corruption in the education is to make entire education free in the country with stronger control in quality and selection with the

Why MNCs and top companies want graduates from top institutes

2011-10-19T04:33:00.000-07:00

I didn't complete my University : Bill Gates .

I Stitched Shoes in childhood : Abraham Lincoln, .

I was the one who served in Hotels : OBEROI .

I was Conductor : Rajnikanth .

I worked at Petrol Pump : Ambani .

I Failed in class 10th : Sachin Tendulkar .

I was a Drop out n Keyboard Player : A R Rahman .

I Slept on a Bench & borrowed Rs 20 everyday from friend to travel to filmcity : Shahrukh khan

. I used to serve Tea to support my Football Training : Lionel Messi . .

Life isn't about finding yourself :) . Life is about creating yourself..

I will say
university degrees don't make you a good professionals still the people who are running this company wants university toppers. It seems they just want to take revenge from the toppers saying "whatever percentage you achieve in your degree finally you have to work for drop outs like me" :)

I Aman M A In Polsci Professionaly Am B Ed Am Having 5 Years Exp As S St Teacher And One Year Exp As An Ielts Trainer

2011-10-11T22:33:00.000-07:00

I Aman M A In Polsci Professionaly Am B Ed Am Having 5 Years Exp As S St Teacher And One Year Exp As An Ielts Trainer

My letter to Dean, FMS, Delhi

2011-10-11T01:26:00.000-07:00

Dear all,

Perhaps this may not be a right way to discuss the topic in this way in view of some professionals here, still I thought to make it part of discussion.
Well, today I read an advertisement from FMS requesting people to apply as a visiting or guest faculty for FMS. I always wish to share my real job experience with management students so with great interest I read the advertisement. Finally, I sent my resume with them and possibly with an "unacceptable" covering letter through mail to dean@fms.edu.
the transcript is as follows:
Dear Sir,

First of all kindly accept my sincere apology as few of the words I am going to mention here may hurt you or you may not feel appropriate but I feel I must express my view on certain things.
When I read your advertisement inviting visiting faculty with my great interest, few words disappointed me (In fact this will disappoint most of my learned HR fraternity). Here, you were focusing more on the words like "full time", "first class" etc.
Well, to be very frank, neither I nor my HR fraternity working in very reputed and higher position accept the view that a full time MBA and academic performance give guarantee that the person will be success in professional life. Finally, it is individual talent which proves your capability as a successful entrepreneur and business decision maker. If the industry will subscribe your this view, then we have to ask most of the successful entrepreneur to step down as most of them are not highly educated. When a reputed alma matter like FMS calls for visiting faculty, the maximum emphasis should be on industry experienced professional AND NOT ON THE ACADEMIC "PERFORMER".
As an Human Resources professional for almost 6 years,I have interviewed thousands of candidates but I do not remember a single instances where a university topper or a "full time graduate" has succeeded to impress me that he/ she is better than the other candidates applying for that particular position.

Well, I am deeply interested to share my real life management/ business/ human resources experience with the future leader of FMS. Even if you do not consider me, it is not going to decrease my value and contribution to my job as neither industry nor me work on this stereotype now. I am very positive that I am well able to share my knowledge as a visiting faculty and to help the future leader of FMS.
Kindly refer my resume for further details to work as a visiting faculty. I have also attached snapshot of my profile to give a glimpse of my experience and area of exposure.

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I do not understand why do not we have a structured way of measuring one's ability? Why are we still behind the academic performance and nonsense "full time" degrees? I think we must change our this kind of mentality.

Govind

What is beauty?

2011-09-23T00:27:00.000-07:00

There was a time in my life when I stopped to believe on the concept that physical appearance doesn't matter. However now I am again going back to my same beliefs- yes it does not matter.
Well, we use the word often, beauty, beautiful and so on. But do we really know what is beauty?
For few people, just being fair skin is beauty. For few people, it is nothing more than the physical appearance and for few people it is a feeling. I do not wish to go with the people what they feel and what it is for them. For me, beauty is something which is always attracting my attraction. Beauty- in the women, beauty- in the nature, beauty-at home.
Well, for me fair means never the beautiful if I tell it in terms of complexion. It is also not just a physical appearance. I have been a strong observer and found that, in first look, sometime you do not find somebody really attracting and beautiful but when you start to spend time with that person, you start to feel and realise that the person look beautiful.
I think I am going away from my point and now I would like to come back to the point beauty.
For me, my perception of the beauty is depend on various factor. Complexion- not at all. Even a dark skin person with good body structure has beauty.
But, the only physical appearance is a beauty?
No, I do not agree to such definition. Beauty is not only physical, it is something which you can sense, which you can understand from heart. In my life I have come across many women who are beautiful. They are not fair but still beautiful. They are the beautiful due to their characteristics, their behaviour, the way they speak, the way they give respect to other people and the way they think.
To understand beauty, you must need an inner voice to analyse them.
Now if see about beauty of the place, I do not think just having tall and glasful building makes the city or a human habitat beautiful. The beauty of the place is depend on its people, how they behave and many other things. If you ask me whether Navi Mumbai is beautiful or Thane, I will prefer to say Thane. Although the road is not in very good condition. Still, few of the traditional home, the way people have protected the culture, the way people behave there attracts me.
I had been to Konkan few years back. I will say, Konkan is more, much more beautiful than Mumbai. The people, the way they respect each other, the way they respect other language and the feeling of "Atithi Devo Bhava" attracts me there again and again.
In short, I can say that if something cannot attract you permanently, it is not the beauty. Beauty is something in which you find solace, which attracts you again and again, forever irrespective of its physical look.

Mockery of poverty

2011-09-20T21:52:00.000-07:00

In or about September 22, 2011 our planning commission headed by another official agent of World Bank Dr. Manmohan Singh (Prime Minister is chairman of planning commission ex-officio) and Montek Singh Ahluwalia filed an affidavit in our honourable the Supreme Court of India about status of people below poverty line (BPL) that
1. A person earning Rs. 32 and above in urban area is not a person below poverty line
and
2. A person earning above Rs. 26 in rural area is not a person below poverty line.

The honourable Supreme Court as well as various political party within and outside UPA slammed planning commission for such a useless data. However, the shameless planning commission represented its view through its member Abhijit Sen that Supreme Court should not interfere in such matter.

Now my question is, do we need such a useless body as planning commission?
Mr. Manmohan Singh prefer to talk and deliver speech in English instead of delivering it in Hindi (Perhaps he feels himself very inferior when he talks in Hindi or he communicates his messages to world bank, UN, US, UK and other people not to the citizen of our own land) and he praise that British rule was better for India, in such condition how can we expect that he has time to analyse national problem at grass root level, he cannot and he "will" not.

Well, I would like to focus myself on the key points below poverty line and poor.

Well, the planning commission says that a person earning Rs. 32 is not a poor. First of all what is poverty?
I believe, when somebody cannot get the basic necessities i.e. food, shelter and clothing and with this, I would like to add basic education for children and a medical care, every such person is poor. I am talking about just shelter it can be a jhuggi too, it can be a room kitchen flat too, I am talking about the food which is required for daily nutritional need, I am not talking about very tasty or costly foods, I am talking about basic clothings not the high branded and so on. I am talking about basic medical care i.e. whenever a human being is not keeping well, he should have enough resources to treat himself/ herself and dependent.

As per the international criteria, a person earning less than US $ 1.25 per day is in extreme poor condition and by this definition, 40% of our India, we Indian are below poverty line.

The US benchmark says that (as per the 2006 data) a family of four person need to have annual income of US $ 20,650 = 1022500 approx India Rupees) to meet basic food requirements. If I go by this definition, then I will also fall under category of the poor family.
Well, since i am talking about my own country, let me have illustration for my own countrymen.

Well, today, if you buy a "good" wheat and "clean" rice from government run PDS (Public Distribution System) which is still out of rich of many countrymen, so the cost will be like this
In my family, we, the member of 5 people buy approx 100 KG rice, approx 30 Kgs of wheat flour, approx 5 Kgs of Dal, approx 50 Kgs of different vegetables, approx 10 litres oil, approx 5 Kgs of Sugar, approx 40 litres of milk. I will not include any other commodities which I use to make my life comfortable and to enjoy tastes (so I have excluded fruits from the list, Papad and Achar from the list and there are many things).
Now let's calculate the price.
The rice costs at around Rs. 9 per KG
The wheat costs around Rs. 8 per KG
Sugars, Kerosene, Daals are not available at all and if its available even the quota is not sufficient for 1 person, forget about the family. The rice is of such quality that no human can eat it.
So, the cost as per ration shop or PDS shop is:
Rice: 9 X 100 = 900
Wheat: 8 X 30 = 240
Daal = 5 X 30 (The cheapest daal available in the market) = 150
Vegetables = 50 X 15 (Approx 15 Rs. per KG average) = 750
Oil: 10 X 50 (Considering palmoline oil, the cheapest edible oil) = 500
Kerosene : 10 X 30 (Considering family need 10 litres and available at Rs. 30 per litre approx) = 300
Sugar: 5 X 30 (Rs. 30 is average price per KG) = 150
Milk: 50 X 40 (Rs. 40 per litre is approx price) = 2000

I do not want to add any further commodities here else our poor fellow citizen will die.

so, if I sum it up, the total comes to: 4990

Now, lets follow the planning commission's definition.
If a person is earning Rs. 32 per day then he is not a poor and not eligible for welfare scheme run by Government.
OK, so 5 family members earn Rs. 32 average each. Then, the total earning is 4866.00 of the entire family.

Now, how will this person survive? He has to pay rent, he has to pay children's education expenses (even if they are studying the useless municipal corporation schools), he has to pay medical expenses, he has to think about marriage of children in future).

Have they gone mad?

Can they survive themselves in Just Rs. 32 per day, per person?

Above, I have taken price of a rationing shop, not of a retailer or grocery stores. Shouldn't this person get some money for entertainment, will not he incur anything as expenses in the traveling?
They should feel ashamed.

I travel from Bhiwandi (A town near Mumbai) to Lower Parel, mumbai everyday for the job purpose. The cheapest mode of transport is TMT (Thane Municipal Transport) busses. Even it cost Rs. 26 per day for to and fro. I have to bear additional train fare. So if from my Rs. 32, if I deduct Rs. 26 towards bus fare and if I deduct Rs. 200 train pass fare, at the end of the month I have to borrow Rs. 20 from somebody else just to meet my traveling expenses at lowest.

Either the people sitting at planning commission's office are fool or they are stupid. Definitely they eat the rice above Rs. 40 per KG, what flour, above Rs. 30 per KG, highly paid medical allowances, free car and petrol, free AC office and fully furnished home and alongwith that higher bribery. Manmohan Singh spent Rs. 10 lakhs just to renovate his kitchen (forget about him) and the money was paid from our pocket in the forms of different taxes and in this 10 lakhs Rs., we could provide many things to a rural part. Indirectly, every middle class Indian like us are willingly or unwillingly paying money for the development of those who are not able to do it in terms of our taxes and unfortunately it is misused.

All the members of planning commission must be sacked with immediate effect and in place of them, our poorest brothers should be made member so they can decide the criteria of being a poor in true sense and for the true development.

For me, every Indian who is earning less than Rs. 5000 in rural and less than Rs. 8000 per month in urban area is poor.

Anna and his Drama

2011-08-18T05:02:00.000-07:00

Hi,

Below is not my article, I got it from Mr. Krishnaraj Rao and I agree to him

18 August 2011: Whenever public anger spills out on the streets and media goes into overdrive, a new political party is born or gains ascendancy. Many a new party in its infancy appears like a socio-political movement. When the dust settles, the movement is over, and only the party remains.

LOOK AT A FLASHBACK:

· JANATA PARTY. Do you remember the Nav Nirman riots of 1974, which started in Gujarat and spread to the rest of the country? I was nine years old then, and I still remember how “Lok Nayak” Jay Prakash Narayan gave a call for women to bang their thalis and vaatis together at a specific times of the day to protest against corruption of the Indira Gandhi government. The riots triggered the Emergency and the Baroda Dynamite Case. All of this resulted in the rise of the Janata Party. Its leaders – Morarji Desai and Chaudhari Charan Singh -- became Prime ministers. BUT THEY DID NOT ERADICATE CORRUPTION OR REFORM THE INDIAN DEMOCRACY.

· JANATA DAL. Do you remember V P Singh? Remember how he was called “Mr Cleaner”, as opposed to “Mr Clean” Rajiv Gandhi? Remember the commotion he created around Reservations and implementation of Mandal Commission Report? On the back of those passions, V P Singh became Prime Minister.

· BHARATIYA JANATA PARTY. In 1984, when Vishwa Hindu Parishad pledged to build a Ram temple where the Babri Masjid stood. For a whole decade, Hindutva passions created scenes similar to what we are witnessing on TV currently. Some of my cousins in Mangalore used to carry photographs of Atal Bihari Vajpayee in their pockets, and kiss them, whispering, “BJP Swami! BJP Swami!” BJP rose to power. Atal Bihari Vajpayee was Prime Minister between 1998 and 2004. BUT THE TEMPLE AT RAM JANAM BHOOMI WAS NOT BUILT.

· SHIV SENA. In 1966, Bal Thackeray floated the idea that Mumbai belongs to the Marathi manoos (locals). For some years, Gujaratis, South Indians, Muslims and UP bhaiyyas etc lived in fear of being sent packing, and the Shiv Sena party became a permanent presence in the politics of this state. From 1995 to 1999, Shiv Sena and BJP were together in power in Maharashtra. This alliance continues to be in power in Mumbai Municipal Corporation. But even after renaming of streets, setting up hawker stalls grandly called Shiv Vada-Pav at every street corner, forcing shop signs to be written in Marathi, and renaming Sahar International Airport and Victoria Terminus after Chhatrapati Shivaji, MARATHI MANOOS IS STILL THE UNDERDOG.

· MAHARASHTRA NAVNIRMAN SENA. In 2006, Raj Thackeray started a fresh onslaught of the son-of-the-soil ideology in Maharashtra. At that point in time, it appeared as though UP bhaiyyas and Biharis would be sent packing, leaving all the jobs vacant for Maharashtrians. Today, MNS party has a sizeable presence in Maharashtra’s legislature and Municipal Corporations of many cities, but the BASIC PROMISE TO THE MARATHI PEOPLE REMAINS UNFULFILLED.

There are such examples in every State.

Whenever a new NETA arrives on the scene, he wears the cap of LEADER OF THE REVOLUTION and BELOVED OF THE PEOPLE, and marks his entrance with an overwhelmingly popular response. The followers are full of unquestioning faith and euphoria, and they swear to die for their leader.

Except in Maharashtra, most supporters who are fasting probably heard about Anna Hazare only a few months ago, thanks to Arvind Kejriwal’s mass-contact campaign. But now they say they are willing to die for Anna! This is testimony to the power of a determined individual aided by 24x7 news channels, bulk-SMSes, Facebook and Twitter.

Granted, both Anna Hazare and Arvind Kejriwal are giants. They have done immense work for society, and they are both pioneering activists. Nonetheless, we should hold up their actions to public scrutiny. EACH ACTION OF EVERY LEADER IN THE PUBLIC DOMAIN MUST BE TESTED ON THE TOUCHSTONE OF PUBLIC INTEREST. This applies people like Sonia Gandhi and Dr Manmohan Singh, and it applies in equal measure to Arvind Kejriwal and Anna Hazare. (And yes, it applies, in equal measure to me also.)

And so, try to look beyond the self-righteous footage and soundbites. Consider the merits of what I am writing. Question everybody’s motives, including mine. Read this and think. Ask questions. Verify everything. Please think for yourself.

TEAM ANNA’S NON-GANDHIAN METHODS:

A. UNTRUTH. CAMPAIGN BASED ON IGNORANCE OF MASSES. You should focus on whether the Jan Lokpal Bill mooted by Team Anna Hazare is superior and more effective than the government version? Whether it is more implementable and will have greater deterrent effect on corrupt people? Most of frenzied people fasting in various cities have not read the two versions (Jan Lokpal Bill http://www.lokpalbillconsultation.org/docs/lokpalbill2_2.pdf and Govt’s of Lokpal Bill http://persmin.nic.in/Lokpal/Lokpal_Bill_Version2.3.pdf ). Most people are taking an unreasoned stance based on blind faith. It is Team Anna’s duty to dispel this ignorance, but instead, they are fuelling this movement with ignorance and misinformation.

B. NOT MORAL FORCE. CAMPAIGN BASED ON MEDIA. Gandhian methods of Satyagraha is based on moral force, not on feeding a media frenzy. There is nothing Gandhian about creating a campaign that is more about creating a visual impact through Lokpal Bill burning and candlelight walks, than about creating a change of heart. What is currently being used is brute force of media.

C. NO HUMILITY. CAMPAIGN IS BASED ON ARROGANCE. To create a change of heart in a Gandhian way, you have to be meek and mostly silent – and not boastful about making governments fall. You have to be introspective and use “soul-force”. Satyagraha means Satya + Agraha – literally, the Command by Truth Force. Arm-twisting and making the other side look terrible is not Satyagraha of any kind; these are political tactics traditionally used by opposition parties.

D. UNTRUTH. MYTH OF GOOD VERSUS EVIL. The public perception has been engineered that “Team Anna = Anti-Corruption, UPA Govt = Pro-Corruption”. The soundbites on television are showing that the supporters think they are fighting against “corruption”, and the UPA government is obstructing them because it wants to protect corruption.

E. UNTRUTH. UNNECESSARILY CRYING FOUL. It is the duty of Anna Hazare and Arvind Kejriwal to educate people that there is something called Rule of Law, and that if you protest by some methods, you may expect the police to legitimately clamp down on you with prohibitory orders. Yes, you may defy the orders and protest, but if the police arrests you, please don’t cry foul! Being arrested or attracting police action is a normal part of civil disobedience in all civilized nations; why portray the cops as villains?

F. VIOLENCE. RAMMING A LEGISLATION DOWN THE NATION’S THROAT. There is a legitimate way of introducing Bills in parliament. To introduce Jan Lokpal, there are constitutionally acceptable methods available to citizens. Alternatively, to ask for changes in a Bill such as govt version of Lokpal, there are ample opportunities available to all of us. After availing such opportunities, one may further create public pressure for acceptance of such changes by protesting and fasting. But trying to ram down a fully-formed Jan Lokpal Bill into Parliament by arm-twisting the government defies all Constitutional logic, and is extremely arrogant. It is an insult to the citizen of India, leave alone parliamentarians. There is nothing Gandhian about this!

G. NOT PEACEFUL. CONFRONTATIONIST & TU-TU MEIN-MEIN APPROACH. Any Gandhian will tell you that when you are doing Satyagraha, you cannot play the blame game with people on the other side of the table. You can’t keep running to the media and running down the government while negotiations are in progress. If you really want the government to consider your terms, you have to adopt a gentle and respectful approach.

H. SUBJECTIVE. LACK OF INTROSPECTION. A Gandhian approach is marked by a constant awareness of ones own faults, and a readiness to correct oneself even mid-stream. Satyagraha demands a constant attention to the correctness of ends and means. One is not a Satyagrahi if one holds if that the end justifies the means!

I. VIOLENT. PROVOKING DIRECTIONLESS ANGER. The present method is provoking anger against “the system”, which is not directed against anything in particular. It targets “corruption” which is a nebulous, all-inclusive term. Charges of corruption can be leveled against anybody and everybody. In short, this campaign provokes ANTI-ESTABLISHMENT SENTIMENTS.

J. NO COMPASSION. ACTING IRRESPONSIBLY, PROVOKING VIOLENCE. Angry sentiments and mass mobilizations against “corruption” can be ignited at any time, and erupt into mob fury. Anna’s rhetoric (such as “If Gandhiji’s methods don’t work, then Shivaji’s methods) is not entirely peaceful. Angry mobs are being mobilized in every city; even a couple of stray incidents by over-zealous unemployed persons can start a nationwide chain reaction of stone-throwing, arson, looting etc – all in the name of anti-corruption! Gandhians are supposed to set up a mood of calm contemplation and prayer while fasting.

HOME TRUTHS ABOUT ANNA HAZARE:

1) IS THIS THE FIRST TIME ANNA HAZARE USED THE ‘I WON’T LEAVE THE JAIL’ TACTIC? No, he has done this in the past. See this video of May 2009, where he is standing in the Sahyadri government guest house in Mumbai and boasting about how Maharashtra government is afraid of him. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1XIhIT40mQk

2) DOES ANNA HAZARE TRULY UPHOLD PEOPLE’S DEMOCRATIC RIGHT TO PROTEST PEACEFULLY? I staged an indefinite fast at Ralegan Siddhi in October 2010, from October 6 to October 12 (and thereafter in Mumbai till October 14). For three days and nights, I stayed outside Anna Hazare’s room in the temple where he lives, without even a placard or slogan. Anna knew why I was fasting. And then, in front of my eyes, Anna called his Panchayat members and told them to call the police. The next day, a police jeep picked me up and produced me before the Taluka Magistrate. “The village panchayat has passed a resolution that except Anna, nobody else can fast in the village,” he said. Neither police, nor village panchayat, nor Anna’s office gave me a copy of this resolution. The village temple is a public place where some people sleep every night. Read this news item: http://tinyurl.com/mirror-news-item1

3) IS ANNA HAZARE SERIOUS ABOUT CORRUPTION? To his great credit, Anna has achieved much by engagement with Maharashtra government. He has created an anti-corruption mechanism that is as powerful as the RTI Act (which also Anna helped to father). Anna’s Bhrashtachar Virodhi Jan Andolan Nyas, has branches all over Maharashtra, and its office-bearers enjoy a privileged place in the new mechanism. But, instead of promoting the use of this mechanism, they are letting it wither away through disuse. Details: http://tinyurl.com/corruption-eradication-cmtee

4) DOES ANNA HAZARE UPHOLD DEMOCRATIC VALUES & INSTITUTIONS? Anna’s village Ralegan Siddhi is a “model village”, with no liquor shops, no shops selling gutka etc. Why? Because Anna outlawed it. Anna is the undisputed raja of this tiny kingdom, and the village panchayat is subservient.

Anna cleaned up this village by beating up those who drank liquor, smashing the liquor shops etc. Read http://annahazarebhrashtacharvirodhijan.blogspot.com/

Anna Hazare runs some trusts and societies. One of them, Bhrashtachar Virodhi Jan Andolan Nyas, has branches all over Maharashtra. Office-bearers in these organizations are there by Anna’s pleasure. These organizations are virtually a one-man show. Please find out whether there are actual activities happening in your city or district; you will be sorely disappointed.

5) DOES ANNA HAZARE NURTURE A SECOND LINE OF LEADERS? In all his decades as a social activist, Anna Hazare has not allowed the emergence of a number-two. He does not entrust his work to anybody. In that sense, Anna is not a democratic person by temperament. Try to find Anna’s second-in-command if you can! (Arvind Kejriwal is not a second-in-command.)

6) ARE ANNA HAZARE’S ASSOCIATES FRIENDLY & TRANSPARENT PEOPLE? Anna’s associates and are secretive, evasive and non-committal. Even the members of Anna’s organizations have a hard time tracking his movements, meeting him, or holding him accountable for anything. They are stonewalled and sidetracked.

7) DOES ANNA HAZARE SHARE CREDIT? Ask Anna Hazare how the Right to Information Act came about, and you will hear a litany about how HE fasted, and what all HE did. There is no mention of Aruna Roy, Arvind Kejriwal and Prashant Bhushan, who played key roles.

Those of you who are swearing to die for Anna Hazare, please take a word of caution. He is not a democratic person. He is at best a benevolent dictator with very strong ideas of right and wrong. Yes, he is a clean and morally upright person, but no, he is not accountable or answerable to anybody. He is a law unto himself. And he is not exactly a Gandhian. (But please don’t take my word for it; find out for yourself.)

WHY I FEEL THIS CAMPAIGN IS LEADING TOWARDS PARTY FORMATION:

a) POPULAR DEMANDS THAT ARE IMPOSSIBLE TO FULFILL. Making an impossible demand enables you to get people’s support for a very long time, and build a party structure around such support. By isolating and demonizing the government in power, it enables you to build yourself up as an opposition party for the coming elections. A similar tactic was employed by Bharatiya Janata Party when they demanded demolition of Babri Masjid and building of Ram temple.

If getting a good legislation was genuinely the objective of this campaign, then I think a more conciliatory approach would have been adopted. If it was their aim to make a dent in the problem of corruption, then they would have had more acceptable and do-able targets for the UPA government. For instance, they might have supported the government Lokpal Bill but pressed for some crucial amendments. And then they would have focused on tight implementation of the key provisions.

Instead, Team Anna is asking for things that would make it impossible for government, parliament or judiciary to function i.e. (i) Prime Minister should be under Lok Pal scanner even during his term in office. (ii) Judiciary, MLAs, MPs, bureaucrats, clerks, peons etc should all be under the same authority. (iii) Life imprisonment should be awarded for corruption. If conceded, these demands would not only make it impossible for the Prime Minister and Judges to function, but also strike fear into the heart of judges and officials who deal with hundreds of people every month, and are forced to displease many. The Jan Lokpal Bill would make put such people continuous targets for mala-fide complaints. Who would want to do such a job in such dangerous conditions? Such a legislation would start a witch-hunt!

b) NO-WIN SITUATION FOR UPA GOVT. When you continually goad and embarrass a party in power, you make it very unrewarding to concede to your demands. The current situation is a No-Win situation for the UPA government: If it concedes Anna’s demands and tabled Jan Lokpal Bill before Parliament, then it would get no credit for it, and Manmohan Singh would be projected as a very weak PM. If this happened, the government would be overwhelmed by copy-cat agitations in the months to follow; therefore that is not an option. If they seek to seek Anna Hazare halfway, they have to contend with his take-it-or-leave-it kind of stance, and they will end up looking weak. If Anna Hazare dies fasting, or if they drive him away for any reason, then the UPA government will surely be portrayed as a brutal regime. Creating a No-Win situation for the government MAKES SENSE ONLY IF YOU WISH THAT YOUR DEMANDS SHOULD NOT BE MET.

c) CROWD PLEASING TACTICS. Many features of Jan Lokpal Bill were written in by Arvind Kejriwal during his public consultations in different cities. People would raise their hands and give their suggestions, and Arvind would say (for instance), “Good idea! The maximum punishment should be life imprisonment! I’ll add that into the Jan Lokpal Bill.” Needless to say, you don’t have to worry about implementability if crowd-pleasing is the ultimate objective; you can promise all things to everybody!

d) POLITICAL STRATEGICIANS. For years, I have seen that Arvind Kejriwal was dreaming up shortcuts to break into the system and gain power for himself and a small power-group including Kiran Bedi, J M Lyngdoh and Prashant Bhushan. Meanwhile, Praful Vora and Mayank Gandhi have been strategizing for years, trying to make Jagrut Nagrik Manch (JaNaM) a party for political aspirants among middle-class citizens in Mumbai and mainly Juhu-Vile Parle area. This year, both Mayank and Praful have neglected JaNaM, although Municipal elections are round the corner. Why? I think that it is because they are achieving the same objectives through the imminent launch of the Jan Lokpal Party or India Against Corruption (IAC) Party.

e) BUILDING A MASS-CONTACT DATABASE. All those millions who have replied to bulk SMSes, given missed calls to signify support, or responded to opinion polls are the automatic supporters of JL or IAC Party. With such a large database of supporters, and a catch-all please-all objective of “anti-corruption movement”, you have a winning formula!

Friends, am I against formation of Jan Lokpal or India Against Corruption Party? No; it may be worthwhile and necessary to have such a party. But I am definitely against playing on people’s sentiments and fooling the public to secretly build the mass base for such a party. And yes, I am against anybody fooling around with an elected government, with the administration and with the law-and-order situation for such political objectives.

The framing of a very beneficial Whistle-Blowers’ Bill (Public Interest Disclosure Bill) was subverted by Arvind Kejriwal, and the Jan Lokpal Bill campaign was built on its ashes. This is a great loss to all the whistleblowers and RTI activists, who are in desperate need of a law for their personal protection.

I for one would feel very angry if an unambitious-but-implementable Lokpal Bill was thwarted, not because my fellow activists wanted an alternative legislation, but because they really wanted to build a political party on the ashes of the Lokpal Bill.

Warm Regards,

Krish

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PS: This article will offend many friends. Nevertheless, I am writing this with a clear conscience, because as activists, it is our dharma to question all our leaders and hold them to high ethical standards. If Manmohan Singh and Sonia Gandhi are our leaders, so are Anna Hazare and Arvind Kejriwal – so what if they are activists? We cannot have high benchmarks of accountability for politicians, and no benchmarks for activists. Sorry Arvind. Sorry Annaji. And sorry, all my colleagues who are physically and emotionally involved in India Against Corruption movement.

Matheran Trip August 14, 2011

2011-08-16T10:07:00.000-07:00

My trip to Mathran

2011-08-16T10:05:00.000-07:00

Hi
it is one of the finest moment for me

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Should we respect Jana Gana Mana as our national anthem

2011-08-15T09:18:00.000-07:00

When I was a child, I used to like sing Jana Gana Mana a lot and I used to respect it a lot. When I grew up, one thing constantly pressed my mind- what is the meaning of Jana Gana Mana? What should be our national anthem?
Then I thought the meaning of this Jana Gana Mana and do little search over the net.
To my surprise, I found that Rabindranath Tagore wrote in in the praise of then British ruler king George and for my surprise, I found that we included it as a national anthem as Muslims were not ready to accept Vande Mataram as our national anthem. This was one of the worst part of the politics.
Can somebody include a poem or hymns whatever written in a praise of the person or the ruler who made us slave and looted us, drained our wealth, heritage and people?
I was and I am in a deep grief about this.

The Jana Gana Mana and its meaning is as follows:

Jana gaṇa mana adhināyaka jaya hē
Bhārata bhāgya Vidhātā
Pañjāba Sindhu Gujarāṭa Marāṭhā
Drāviḍa Utkala Baṅga
Vindhya Himācala ẏamunā Gaṅgā
Ucchala jaladhi taraṅga
Tava śubha nāmē jāgē
Tava śubha āśiṣa māgē
Gāhē tava jaya gāthā
Jana gaṇa maṅgala dāyaka jaya hē
Bhārata bhāgya vidhātā
Jaya hē jaya hē jaya hē
Jaya jaya jaya jaya hē

O! Dispenser of India's destiny, thou art the ruler of the minds of all people[9]
Thy name rouses the hearts of Punjab, Sindh, Gujarat, the Maratha country,
in the Dravida country, Utkala and Bengal;
It echoes in the hills of the Vindhyas and Himalayas,
it mingles in the rhapsodies of the pure waters of Yamuna and the Ganges.
They chant only thy name.
They seek only thy auspicious blessings.
They sing only the glory of thy victory.
The salvation of all people waits in thy hands,
O! Dispenser of India's destiny, thou art the ruler of the minds of all people
Victory to thee, Victory to thee, Victory to thee,
Victory, Victory, Victory, Victory to thee!.

So, if you see the meaning, the first question is:
Who is India's dispenser of destiny- God, President, CJI, Prime Minister, King?
Nobody can be our dispenser. The meaning straight forward is a king or a ruler. Since we are democratic country and everybody is equal here- nobody is ruler and nobody is ruled. Unfortunately this is not true.
Whose victory are we expecting? Of that political part or a king?
This is shameless that we are still blindly respecting Jana Gana Mana as our national anthem. I have lost respect for it.
I still consider Vande Mataram as my national anthem. It is finest, it is best. I am debtor of this land. Whatever it may be, the land has given me lot of thing- education, friends, intellectuality, freedom and so on. I can never pay it back my whole life.

Vande Mataram is our national song but it should be our national anthem. It doesn't matter if Muslim want to be hostile to the nation. I am sorry, I am possibly sounding a hardcore communism but I am not. I am against all those people who don't want to be honest or attached towards own motherland. Janani Janmabhusiya Swragadapi Gariyasi i.e. a mother who gives birth to us and motherland both are equivalent to heaven and I strongly believe this.

"Vande maataraM
sujalaaM suphalaaM malayaja shiitalaaM
SasyashyaamalaaM maataram ||

Shubhrajyotsnaa pulakitayaaminiiM
pullakusumita drumadala shobhiniiM
suhaasiniiM sumadhura bhaashhiNiiM
sukhadaaM varadaaM maataraM ||

Koti koti kantha kalakalaninaada karaale
koti koti bhujai.rdhR^itakharakaravaale
abalaa keno maa eto bale
bahubaladhaariNiiM namaami taariNiiM
ripudalavaariNiiM maataraM ||

Tumi vidyaa tumi dharma
tumi hR^idi tumi marma
tvaM hi praaNaaH shariire

Baahute tumi maa shakti
hR^idaye tumi maa bhakti
tomaara i pratimaa gaDi
mandire mandire ||

TvaM hi durgaa dashapraharaNadhaariNii
kamalaa kamaladala vihaariNii
vaaNii vidyaadaayinii namaami tvaaM

Namaami kamalaaM amalaaM atulaaM
SujalaaM suphalaaM maataraM ||

ShyaamalaaM saralaaM susmitaaM bhuushhitaaM
DharaNiiM bharaNiiM maataraM |"

Translation by Shree Aurobindo

Mother, I bow to thee!
Rich with thy hurrying streams,
bright with orchard gleams,
Cool with thy winds of delight,
Dark fields waving Mother of might,
Mother free.

Glory of moonlight dreams,
Over thy branches and lordly streams,
Clad in thy blossoming trees,
Mother, giver of ease
Laughing low and sweet!
Mother I kiss thy feet,
Speaker sweet and low!
Mother, to thee I bow.

Who hath said thou art weak in thy lands
When the sword flesh out in the seventy million hands
And seventy million voices roar
Thy dreadful name from shore to shore?
With many strengths who art mighty and stored,
To thee I call Mother and Lord!
Though who savest, arise and save!
To her I cry who ever her foeman drove
Back from plain and Sea
And shook herself free.

Thou art wisdom, thou art law,
Thou art heart, our soul, our breath
Though art love divine, the awe
In our hearts that conquers death.
Thine the strength that nervs the arm,
Thine the beauty, thine the charm.
Every image made divine
In our temples is but thine.

Thou art Durga, Lady and Queen,
With her hands that strike and her
swords of sheen,
Thou art Lakshmi lotus-throned,
And the Muse a hundred-toned,
Pure and perfect without peer,
Mother lend thine ear,
Rich with thy hurrying streams,
Bright with thy orchard gleems,
Dark of hue O candid-fair

In thy soul, with jewelled hair
And thy glorious smile divine,
Lovilest of all earthly lands,
Showering wealth from well-stored hands!
Mother, mother mine!
Mother sweet, I bow to thee,
Mother great and free!

I believe a national anthem should praise motherland and its people and not the ruler. If you go by above meaning, it is excellent. It describes our motherland at true extent. We must stop accepting Jana Gana Mana which is symbol of our slavery as our national anthem. shame on Gandhi, Nehru and those congress leaders.

Loot le India

2011-08-08T23:17:00.000-07:00

Hi

I got this mail from somebody, I liked it and completely agree to this.
WHAT THE BRITISHERS DIDN’T SUCCEED IN DOING, WE ARE EXCELLING IN!!

Sir Winston Churchill wrote 64 years ago about India :
"Power will go to the hands of rascals, rogues, freebooters; all Indian leaders will be of low caliber & men of straw. They will have sweet tongues & silly hearts. They will fight amongst themselves for power & India will be lost in political squabbles. A day would come when even air & water would be taxed in India ."
We are indeed an incredible NATION; we have worked very hard and we have indeed proved him right.....

India against Corruption!
Releasing Shortly Multi Billion $ Small Budget Film

"LOOT LE INDIA "

Producer : Ambani Bros,
Director : Sonia & Sharad
Hero : Manmohan Singh.
Villian : Baba Ramdev & Anna Hazare
Supporting cast : Ashok Chavan, A Raja , D Maran , Kanimohzi & Kalmadi
Comedy : Lalu Prasad Yadav, Rahul Gandhi, Digvijay Singh
Guest Appearance : S Balwa
Script : Karunanidhi
Choreography : Supreme Court & Subramanian Swamy
Action : Delhi Police,
Stunts & Inaction ; CBI, ED
Music : Neera Radia
Noise ; J Natarajan, M Tiwari, A Singhvi
Media Partners : Sun TV, Kalaignar TV
Banking Partners : Hasan Ali, S Balwa
Shot at locales in Switzerland, Cayman Islands , Tihar,

Tickets printed by TELGI
No e tickets please Please Keep forwarding.... Till this reaches to all Indians and public will throw all these shameless people out..

DEAR FRIENDS IF YOU KNOW SOME POLITICAL PERSONS DO SEND HIM/HER THIS MAIL. THEY NEED TO BE CONGRATULATED FOR THE PAINS THEY HAVE TAKEN IN THESE 63 YEARS TO PROVE SIR WINSTON CHURCHILL CORRECT

Friendship Day....

2011-08-08T01:08:00.000-07:00

Yesterday was Friendship day. I personally believe that to celebrate any moment with friends or to express your friendship or bonding with somebody, you don't need any specific day - you just need to pour your heart.

After many years, I spent good time with few of my friends and if from heart, if I would have missed a lot to somebody, it was Jasmin.

Slutwalk, does it really symbolise women's freedom?

2011-08-05T23:02:00.000-07:00

Well,

I did not write in detail about the comments and it amuse me people's "intellectuality". Well, let's come to the point one by one starting with Rohan's mail and the so called slut walk.

I agree with the line that "change your way of thinking about women" but does freedom means absolutely no control? When somebody used to use the word like "chu...", "MC", "BC", we "sophisticated people used to call it "jhopadpatti" language but when the same language is used in a movie "Delhi Belly" we make it as a symbol of "entertainment", the way our youth and people talk in "colleges" and we don't mind but do we really accept or are we really going to accept it if any of our family members use it at home? So shouldn't you make it part of "liberalisation" and "intellectuality"? What is harm in this?

About changing the mind, I strongly agree and support that women must not be treated as a media of satisfying lust or only as a sexual object. Men and women both are equal. But, does equality means to wear provocative cloth? Does it mean that changing partners like you are changing the dress? Does it mean to be selfish and forget everything?

Society has set certain norms and has put certain restriction on us. These restrictions are not meant to make our life miserable rather it is meant to control our life in such a way that it does not cause trouble to others and to practice the way of life ethically correct,

When Rohan says right comes with responsibility then where is he wrong? He doesn't deny right. Tell me one thing, is it same when a boy is half naked and a women is half naked? Say it nature or say it God has made certain distinction between men and women. Psychologically if a person is not mentally unstable, if he see a woman wearing provocative dress, definitely his feeling arouses (and for a mentally ill person, it arouse even if a woman is wearing proper dress). Every human being has 2 sides- good and bad. Few are there who control about their bad side and sometime it becomes impossible for them for having such control.
I would like to quote example of one Marathi Movie (Unfortunately I don't recall its name). This movie was based on Pune students who have come to "study" from different part of the country. Then a Punjabi / Delhite girl falls in love with a boy studying in same college and one evening in an abandoned area they drink and involve in physical relationship. A corrupt and characterless policeman come there and threaten the boy. The boy leaves the girl helpless and the policeman commits "rape" with the girl. Later the matter reach to court. There the policeman gives statement "She was being physical with the girl and I thought she is a call girl/ that type of girl, so I did it" and the girl also realise that it was wrong from the part of the society as well as from her.

So when you use the world liberal, does it mean like this? Then I strongly object this liberal thinking- not only for girls but also for boys.

You are daring here to say people that change your thinking don't ask to change the way we dress. Then, why do you put locks in your door? Why don't you say people that "change the way of your thinking, it is my property not yours, I am not going to blot my door, I am not going to lock it, I am not going to appoint any security guard". Nobody will dare to say this. Does vulgarity, wearing lesser clothes and doing shameless march is going to stop attack on women and their prestige? In that case US and other western country should not have reported any case of rape and assault on women as they are too "civilised", too "educated" and for them dress, having multiple sexual relationship before marriage is common.

If you say about liberty and change the thinking, Yes I will say that as if a man stay out of home the women also should have similar rights and nobody should doubt their integrity and chastity. They should empowered and also given equal rights. Just being naked and wearing clothes don't empower them.

Those who are guilty and treat women as a sex object must be punished but your freedom ends when you start interfering in other's freedom.

Govind

Delhi Belly, Censor Board, Entertainment and We- the People

2011-07-11T11:53:00.001-07:00

I saw a lot of publicity, advertisement about the movie Delhi Belly, so I was also curious to know and watch this movie.

I am neither a fanatic movie lover nor watch it crazily. Yes, sometime with friends (usually, I watch once in a 2-3 months and I am very selective to go and watch movie in theatre. Yes, at home, usually I watch on movie per day and Sunday at least 2 to 3 movies)

Well, I come back to the point again. My one friend had been forcing me to accompany him to watch Delhi Belly. I refused two to three times but he constantly persuaded me. It was a Friday night. I reached home at around 8 pm from office. I was too tired to do anything but he did not listen and insisted me to accompany him. He came with his one more friend and fortunately his friend also happen to be a male and not a female. Finally we reached to highland star cinema at Thane, Kapurbavdi, near Big Bazar to watch this movie. This location is around 12 KM from my home.

I paid 420 for 3 tickets using my credit card. Before entering to theatre, what I assumed that since it is an Aamir Khan Production movie, then definitely we can watch it. It might have some fun filled scene and few abuse with bip sound but I was quite sure that it does not contain more than this. Finally we all three entered into theatre. We got seat no. 12,13 and 14. Before that there was a couple with seat no. 10 and 11. It was an 8.55 pm show. 90 % of the theatre was full and I guess there were around 15 ladies- someone with husband and more with their boyfriends (purely my assumption and it can be wrong too).

When the movie started, it was a mouth opener and it well indicated that what we are going to see during next 2 hours. The movie was full with objectionable scene.The director/ producer had used abusing words and vulgar scene without any limit, without any beep sound as it was seeming that the USP (Unique Selling Point) for this movie was only the abusing words and vulgarity. Yes, comedy was there but the comedy could be also there without any vulgarity and without using such languages.

This movie forced me to think and debate with my friends, is it allowed to do anything on the name of entertainment? in the name of openness and liberty, do we want to do anything?. It was surprising for me that how our censor board passed this movie with an A certification and with permission to screen it in the theatres? I know few boys who were under 18 but still managed to “enjoy” this movie. It was ridiculous. Today, the producer has screened this movie in the theatre, tomorrow it will come on the TV screen. Maximum what will happen- our information and broadcasting ministry will ask the TV channels to broadcast it only after 11 pm. then? Do you think that the children and teenagers will prefer sleep over the movie? Of course not. The other bitter truth is that this movie is already in circulation in 3gp and other mobile formats and they (the youth) must have “enjoyed” it. So, finally do we want that our children and youth should felt joyful when they will use words like “behen……”, “chu……”, “ga…….” in every sentence? Perhaps. Perhaps we feel it is part of culture now. The clean chit to this movie without cut in such language and objectionable scene forced me to think that what was wrong in the movie black friday and Zakhm had? Censor board did not give approval for both movie for quite longer time. Black Friday was a true account of Mumbai 93 blast. This movie showed how politically motivated people misguide few people from a specific community and use them for their own benefit. The people who did this even didn’t feel ashamed on doing this. It reveals the work of Dawood Ibrahim, his brother Iqbal Kaskar’s role and their allies. Zakhm is a superb movie. This movie tells how political leader wants that we Indian should fight and die on the name of our specific religious community. In this movie, protagonist’s father is a Hindu, mother is a Christian and they had two son. They grow up both of them as a Hindu. The eldest one, the protagonist remains religiously neutral but his brother becomes a hardcore Hindu. During riot, a Muslim kills protagonist’s mother mistaking her as a Hindu and the hardcore Hindu brother wants to kill everybody who is not a Hindu and the protagonist himself tells him that he is self not a complete Hindu. Protagonist doesn’t want to leave Mumbai as he believes “maa aur mulk nahi badle jaate” means mother and country (motherland) is never to be changed . I didn’t see anything bad in both of these movies. Still censor board found it objectionable. But the same censor board didn’t find anything bad in the movie Delhi Belly.

Perhaps while taking decision about both Zakhm and Black Friday, the political “leader” might have felt insecurity to lose their vote bank but in Delhi Belly, there was no such danger. It’s true, we get the government as we are.

I never expected such a worst movie from a celebrity like Aamir Khan. He proved that money is everything. When we were out of the hall, none of the women were in a position to make eye contact with anybody and one man was explaining her girlfriend that he was unaware that this movie has vulgarity, what he knew that it is a comedy movie. Yes, this movie is a comedy. Comedy of entertainment, comedy of our youth, nation, central board, politician and comedy of our freedom of expression. i am also using the same freedom, my fundamental rights, my freedom of expression. I hope nobody will mind.

Govind

Ramdev and his never ending drama

2011-06-12T00:35:00.000-07:00

First time Ramdev fleed as a coward in women's dress when realised that another most corrupt Congress Govt is going to break his drama after a failed deal. Now he realised that nobody is going to care about his "Ant Shant i.e. anshan" and he is going to die, so he broke his second drama. Well, people commented positively and negatively on my this feed. If Ramdev was a patriot and as he always says he is follower of Bhagat Singh he must know that most respected honourable Bhagat singh neither hospitalised nor broke his fast even when his father requested. We Indian can be cheated emotionally very easily.

Well, I am writing about him since several days. I have been receiving comments on my post whether it is facebook, orkut or my mail to several groups. Some feedbacks are positive and some feedback are negative. I think this is time now to put my thinking collectively together.

The first question is am I a congress supporter? second question is "Am I against of people fighting to end corruption?" third question is "Don't I love my nation?"

Well, I would like to answer them here one by one. Possibly, few more question will arise here on the basis of my answer. I will put my all efforts to reply them in best possible manner.

Am I a congress supporter?

The answer is definitely know. I never accepted that congress was only responsible for independence of our nation. In fact till 1930, congress never demanded complete independence from British. I value contribution of Shri Bhagat Singh, Shri Sukhdev, Shri Rajguru, Shri Surya Sen, Netaju Subhashchandra Bose, Shri Rasbihari Bose, Kalpana Datta, Pritilata Vaddedar, Shri Ramprasad Bismill, Shri Ashfaq Ulla Khan and many such forgotten hero. They were great martyrs. They had nothing to do with power, popularity and life. For them, the ultimate goal was to get total independence. I also value contribution of Shri Lokmanya Tilak, Bipin Chandra Pal, Shri Lala Lajpatrai. Of course, these people were from congress, but all these great soul were extremist and true freedom fighter. They never accepted British rule in India.

In Shri Bhagat Singh's word, "I don't want such independence where we will take power from one powerful person (British) and will give it few richer section of the society. They will also repeat the same thing whatever British have done. I need complete independence where everybody will have freedom, where nobody will be hungry, where everybody will be self sustained". Unfortunately, we got "independence" but it remained status quo, nothing has changed then and now. Still honest people like Binayak Sen are sentenced for sedition, where judiciary and law enforcement agencies are most corrupt. CBI is just a puppet of power in hand of people in power. Where, justice can be bought and in complete history of our honourable supreme court, we have got hardly 2 or 3 chief justice. In entire life of our Election Commission, we have got hardly 3-4 honest politically free chief election commissioner like Shri J M Lyngdoh, Krishnamoorthy and T.N. Seshan.

Then definitely question arise why I am against Ramdev. Well, Ramdev never had been an honest figure. He is definitely not Mr. White. First of all, if you observe him carefully, you will find that his ultimate goal is to gain popularity and be in limelight at any cost. A yogi definitely don't need any fame or money. I bet you, there are still thousands of Yogi in India to whom you don't know., who are spending time to serve humanity, who don't build any empire. He talks about patriotism and humanity but h doesn't offer any of its services free of cost. He talks about loving mankind and animal but his people self claimed that he has violated labour laws and used animal parts in his medicine. However, this entire episode suppressed due to huge political support he gained.

You can read following excerpts from wikipedia.

Ramdev is supposedly linked by Rashritya RSS by many politicians.Lalu Yadav said in a press conference that "Sadhvi Ritambhara was the first one to share the stage (with Ramdev at ramlila protest). She was the one who was responsible for the Babri Masjid demolition".[54] Digvijay Singh,Congress general secretary alleged that all the 5 star arrangements at Ramlila ground protests were done by right activist group RSS and VHP.[55] Congress spokesperson Abhishek Manu Singhvi said that "Some people with vested interest are hijacking and remote controlling the protest by RSS and BJP".He also alleged that nation wide protest by ramdev is being financed by RSS.

Initially RSS leader Ram Madhav made distance on this issue.[56] Though later RSS chief Mohan Bhagwat said that "The RSS was not behind the stir launched by Ramdev seeking repatriation of the black money stashed illegally in foreign banks but have extended all support to it (agitation).He added "RSS cannot remain a mute spectator to the social revolution taking place against corruption and black money. Therefore, it has asked its cadres to join the agitation"[57]

Ramdev is allegedly called as business tycoon,has built a global yoga empire that stretches from India to a remote island in Scotland, with declared revenues since 1995 of 11 billion rupees ($220 million)."I've become so powerful, I can uproot a government. I don't have financial or legal power, but in a democracy I have the power of the people," he declared in an interview with Indian magazine Tehelka last year.[58][59]

Labour Law violations and Animal parts in medicines

In March 2005, 113 employees of Divya Yoga Mandir Trust, Haridwar started an agitation for minimum wages and employees's rights such as coverage under the Provident Fund and Employees' State Insurance schemes. After a tripartite meeting, an agreement was reached between the workers, management and the district administration. However, some agitating workers were dismissed by the Trustees after being alleged to be responsible for sabotage. Their case was taken up by the trade union Centre of Indian Trade Unions (CITU), affiliated to the Communist Party of India (Marxist). They are still to be reinstated.[60][61]

Brinda Karat, a senior leader of the Communist Party of India (Marxist) was involved with the protesters and was told by disgruntled workers that animal parts were used in the manufacture of some medicines. In January 2006, she accused the Divya Pharmacy, owned by Divya Yog Mandir Trust for using human and animal bones in their medicines. Samples of the medicines Kulya Bhasm (Mixture) and Yauvanamrit Vati purchased from Brahmakalp Chikitsalaya- the Trust's Hospital at Haridwar were allegedly tested at government labs and the presence of animal materials in the sample was confirmed.[60] However, the source of the samples was disputed, as these had been supplied by Karat to the labs and not procured by government officials. Karat produced what were claimed to be the prescription and cash receipt obtained from the medicine counter for the samples provided.[60][61][62]

Her controversial remarks drew strong condemnation from several politicians in North India, like Sharad Pawar, Mulayam Singh Yadav and Narayan Dutt Tiwari.[63][citation needed] Subsequently she received a legal notice on the behalf of a B.J.P. leader in Faridabad.[64]

A few month later in 2006, four samples were sent to the government recognized Shriram Institute of Industrial Research in Delhi. The report from this institute declared that the samples did not contain any objectionable ingredient and were purely herbal,[citation needed] however, the Union Health Ministry did find animal DNA in the samples, although most of the newspapers carried reports to the contrary.[65]

I am against of people's two faces nothing else. I am against of him because he is using public emotion for his own gain.

Am I against people fighting corruption?

Of Course not, when I see we have to pay bribe even to do right things, my blood boils. But the question here is do we really want corruption to be ended. The answer will always come in NO. Actually we have become so much Sampatti oriented. We want to earn more and more money. We want to climb ladder as faster as possible whatever it may cost it doesn't matter. How many of us have never paid bribe even when not demanded? the answer will come none. Yes, we want to satisfy our need first. Corruption will end when we will be selfless and we will start to think about entire mankind. I appreciate Bibek Anandji's initiative through his Sampada initiatives. You can read it from http://www.sampadaway.blogspot.com.

Of course i love my nation thats why I am opposing such hypocrites. Actually we all don't want that corruption should end. When we all will start thinking together about the nation, we will not be required any kind of such "leaders". They will definitely cheat us once they will come into the power as congress did.

America, Osama, Pakistan and Neo Colonism

2011-05-03T22:48:00.000-07:00

I read news about killing of Osama Bin Laden and reaction of our "news" channel like NDTV India, Aajtak and so on that how it was planned, how it happened, what happened there, why he buried in sea etc etc. and my First reaction to this was
Bullshit!!
USA is bullshitting the whole world and nothing else. It seems like our politician, the Americans have also learnt how to divert public attention from major issues when election is near.

1. I don't trust USA has killed Osama Bin Laden
Since US attacked on Al Queda in Afghanistan, I didn't see any major news or outbreak from Osama Bin Laden and most possibly he had died long ago else I don't see any reason for he had been hiding himself from the world- No video, no live presence before management as his sole purpose was to spread terror and gain publicity.
After that USA suddenly declared that he has been killed in an attack. Nowhere the body was looking like him. US told that they have buried him in sea. This is just a way to remove all evidence and to gain sympathy from US people as US govt. doesn't have any achievement to show except begging from us, from India for job and business.

2. It is a neo-colonism
Although in the world, colonism doesn't exist on paper and none of the country can attack directly on any country, they are using new way of colonism in the name of terrorism, military and financial aid. Pakistan has lost it sovereignty and indirectly it is a new colony of USA. British used business as a tool, then told us that they want to help our selfish and small kings and princely state and by using doctorine of lapse theory they declared that the particular state cannot maintain law and order and administration and they took control over it. The same theory USA is using now to Pakistan. It is showing that Pakistan is doing nothing to curb terrorism and it has indirectly supported terrorist. So they are controlling civil. military and administration of Pakistan. Pakistan has paid huge price for the same.

तनहा ऐसे क्यूँ बेचैन फिरे

2011-04-12T22:42:00.000-07:00

तनहा ऐसे क्यूँ
बेचैन फिरे
जागेंगे ज़रूर यह भाग तेरे
कोई जाने न यह जोश तेरा
कोई जाने न जूनून तेरा

घूम ताना तनानाना

दिल से दिलों को जीतना
मुश्किल से न डरना
रंग बरसेगा यहाँ
दिन हो या फिर रात

घूम ताना तनानाना घूम ताना तनानाना
घूम ताना तनानाना घूम ताना तनानाना

बड़ी दूर रह भी जाना
मायूस न कभी होना
अँधेरे में भी वीराने में भी
खिलेगी कोई कलि

तनहा ऐसे क्यूँ बैचैन तेरे
जागेंगे ज़रूर यह भाग तेरे
कोई जाने न यह जोश तेरा
कोई जाने न जूनून तेरा

घूम ताना तनानाना घूम ताना तनानाना
घूम ताना तनानाना घूम ताना तनानाना

This song inspire me a lot. It is one of the song permanently featured in my mind and in my mobile memory card. It tells lot of thing, specially Subha Mudgal's deep sharp voice touches heart. I gave the same song to Surpiya and she too loved it a lot.

Should we become fool from hypocrite like Anna Hazare and Ramdev

2011-04-12T22:39:00.000-07:00

Dear All,

We Indian are easily deceived by our so called "leaders", "crusaders" and "gurus".

We can be fooled very easily. We believe whatever media portrait us.

Till 2005 I was strongly under impression that Anna Hazare was a true Gandhian leader, social reformer and anti corruption leader. I got a shock when during same time he (Anna) went to fast unto death against 5 Maharashtra Ministers for corruption charges. After that the newspaper filled with evidences and news against Anna by then minister Suresh Jain that how during the fast, Anna used to drink milkshake with dry fruits and how he has more than 80 "charitable trust", these 80 charitable trust has misused huge fund including foreign donation and he was exposed.
Immediately after that he stopped his attack against those minister and it was seeming that something has been done under mutual understanding. It was shocking for me. Since then I had the curiosity, will he be exposed? The reply is of course no. As per the political nexus and business deal between him and politician.
Nation's leading news daily also raise question and suspicion over this. You can read the news item from following link
http://www.hindu.com/fline/fl2207/stories/20050408002602900.htm

The next hypocrite is Ramdev. I don't know how he can become a "baba". He always wants to be in limelight ad for the same purpose sometime he shows he is anti MNCs and cold drinks and all those stuff. He is running a pharmacy as a public trust instead of running this pharmacy as a public or private limited company and earning huge profits. He is seeking tax exemption and his products were under controversy. My mother who is a fond of our culture, well versed in Sanskrit, wanted to learn Yoga from him but when she reached there, she saw truth from naked eye. Rich people were given more preferences and those who were poor and suffering from chronic ailments were sidelined and even being insulted. for everything there was charge. I don't think in our culture and Rishi or Munis charged people for sharing knowledge. Now this hypocryte says that Sachin should be given Bharat Ratna. I blame media who are giving prominence to them. We must have to think and decide what our nation need. We need a revolution in rpoper way and we need to have a scientific thinking, emphasis should be given on study of logic and we have to be united.

Regards
Govind

I oppose Ramdev and Anna Hazare

2011-04-12T22:37:00.000-07:00

No doubt everyone of us has suffered from corruption. As an individual, in my entire life, I have refrained myself to pay bribe to get my work done, instead I have fought for it and in many cases, I paid heavy prices too. Still, I will not say that I have not paid bribe (in fact every single Indian has paid bribe).

Now, lets’ turn on to the topic of corruption. We talk about corruption, we debate, we fight, we express our anger but what does it signify?

Let’s have few illustrations:

Illustration 1: You are living in a city like Mumbai which has huge population and during work hours (morning 7 am to 10 am and evening 6 pm to 10 pm) you want to go office, the foot over bridge is so crowded that if you decide to be a rule follower, it takes you 20 minutes to reach to the platform to catch train; instead you prefer to cross the track; many times you are not caught, once you had been caught. Now you have 2 options:

1. Option 1: Pay penalty of Rs. 1000; take receipt and go and become a corruptless citizen.

2. Option 2: Pay Rs. 100 to Ticket collector or RPF people and go. You will save Rs. 900 wholesome and you will think that you have saved money and even if you would have paid 1000 Rs., people at top level (Railway ministers, executives) would have eaten those money so you did a good job. (Have you really?)

Illustration 2: You want to make your son an engineer. You have spent around 80,000 in his 10+2 exam, same amount for coaching at good institution. Now your son has seen, my father is “rich” enough to meet my demand. He doesn’t score well in exam and get admission in a remote place, say around 200 to 700 KMs away from your residence. Again you have two options:

1. Option 1: Let your son go the remote place and let him learn a lesson that nothing comes easy in life, you have to struggle for this. You become an honest citizen.

2. Option 2: You think that you cannot keep your son away. You think that even if sent to remote place, you have to pay for his accommodation, for his food and the cost is equal to a donation you need to pay for an engineering college near to your home and you pay “donation” or more sophisticated term bribe and you snatch away right of another meritorious or deserving student. You pay it and happy that you have saved your son from hardship and you saved your time and money also.

Illustration 3:

You are well aware that corporator, councilor, MLAs, MLCs and MPs are your representative only. Then get between 2 crore to 5 crore per annum for development of your area. These money have not come from sky, it is either taken on loan by slave of world bank (Manmohan Singh, Monteksingh Ahluwalia). The corporator you have chosen you know very well that not utilized the money in proper manner. But, these representatives have done a good job by making gate to your building complex, by giving you a yearly party and “Free” lunch or dinner occasionally.

Now again you have two options:

Option 1: Dare to stand against such “people’s representative” and you self or stand an honest poor representative and teach him a lesson. Question where money has been spent and make nation corruptless.

Option 2: Why to take headache? You are happy in your life, this is not only your money then why to bother. Maintain status quo.

These are the few examples. There are many in terms of employment, regionalism, communism, castism and so on. As an awaken citizen we all and you are also aware with this. So the biggest question here is who is corrupt? Aren’t I?

Now let’s move to Anna Hazare’s point. Once, I was his staunch follower and very closely monitoring the Suresh Jain episode. I was analyzing every single movement happening and I observed as soon as Suresh Jain attacked back on him, he stopped his agitation and as per internal agreement between him and then state government, the matter close. My question is why? Why we allowed him to deceive us?

Ramdev’s episode I have also told.

A country’s citizen decides what type of country we are and we will. The role model is Bihar now. You can take another example as Bhutan who is least corrupt in entire Asian countries. Take Japan’s example, what a patience they have. So many problems but no one was in hurry to loot the mall or ATMs and if the same would have happened here, we would have looted everything.

I am proud to be an Indian but I am not that person who can be deceived by such “leaders”.

Why we are awaken now when corruption was there for almost after independence? Why this wrong type of emotion. I am very happy that after Cricket, this agitation has brought we all Indian under one roof and it has united but why are we allowing an individual to play with our emotions?

There are leaders and true social reformers in our country who are living anonymous life, who are not highlighted by media but they are not hungry for power and name. They are devoting a lot for society. Whether it is Binayak Sen or many other personalities like him who have suffered and gave up everything and has become reach too.

One of such true Gandhian leader is Dr. Banwarilal Sharma. Fortunately I get a bless to meet and hear him during National convention for Judicial Reform in Mumbai. You can watch him at:

http://youtu.be/Nho_Yz1p1GQ

http://youtu.be/c8B4d98ZWCw

You might have never heard his name but after watching this video, you will realize what is difference between a selfless work and a selfish work.

Dear Deepakji,

I am with you and sypathise to you too but we have to understand here that your suffering is due to not only people sitting in SEBI, RBI or ROCs, it is due to people between us who are so selfish that they want to make money at any cost and want to be “rich” without realizing that the real richness such as stress less life, peaceful sleep they are loosing and they are depend on magic, Babas, sleeping pills, heart surgeries.

I want to summarise as:

1. We must not let any other person to play with our emotion and get unfair advantage from it.

2. We are in Loksatta hence we must not take this satta from one wrong ruler and give to other.

3. If we are really serious to end corruption, we have to do our own cleansing, aatmsuddhi. We must stand for struggle honestly that’s for the nation not for ourself and then definitely we will be able to end corruption.

I sincerely apologies if I have hurt sentiments of any such “patriots”. I am firm on my statement.

Govind

2011-04-08T21:54:00.000-07:00

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2011-02-16T00:14:00.000-08:00

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enough is enough..government is making us fool

Bhagvat Geeta.. true knowledge

2011-02-09T03:40:00.000-08:00

TEXT 34

akirtim capi bhutani kathayisyanti te ’vyayam
sambhavitasya cakirtir maranad atiricyate

TRANSLATION

All people will always talk of your infamy which is surely worse and painful than death for a respectable man.

If you feel negative and to quit, read this

TEXT 35

bhayad ranad uparatam mamsyante tvam maha-rathah
yesham ca tvam bahu-mato bhutva yasyasi laghavam

TRANSLATION

The great generals who have highly esteemed your name and fame will think that you have left the battlefield out of fear only, and thus they will consider you insignificant.

TEXT 36

avacya-vadams ca bahun vadisyanti tavahitah
nindantas tava samarthyam tato duhkhataram nu kim

TRANSLATION

Your enemies will speak many spiteful and insulting words causing harm to your reputation discrediting your power. What could be more painful than that?

TEXT 40

nehabhikrama-naso ’sti pratyavayo na vidyate
sv-alpam apy asya dharmasya trayate mahato bhayat

TRANSLATION

In this path , there is no loss of effort and untoward outcome. A little furtherance on this discipline protects one danger of birth and death.

TEXT 41

vyavasayatmika buddhir ekeha kuru-nandana
bahu-sakha hy anantas ca buddhayo ’vyavasayinam

TRANSLATION

O Joy of the Kurus! Ones who are in this blessed path are determined and focused whereas the intelligence of those who are hesitant is multifaceted and diverse.

TEXT 47

karmany evadhikaras te ma phalesu kadacana
ma karma-phala-hetur bhur ma te sango ’stv akarmani

TRANSLATION

Your right is only to perform your prescribed duty, but you never are entitled to its fruits. Do not be motivated of the results of your activities, and do not have any attachment for not doing your duty.

I think these are enough for you

Are we again slave of English or British?

2011-02-09T03:26:00.000-08:00

Today, We are seeing that every parent where it is a small town or a metro city, where a poor family or where a richest family, all want that their children should talk English only, they should study through English medium only, earlier the the strata was like this: Middle class state board, upper middle class CBSE board, richer section ICSE but now poor class state board, middle class: CBSE, upper middle class : ICSE, richer section : IB.
Now the environment is such that you are a fool if you have not studied through English medium or your English communication is not so strong. However you will find in Arab countries, Japan even in Russia they give prominence to mother tongue. Russia offers MBBS and engineering in Russian medium only but if you see in our country, MBBS is offered only in English medium.
So what is the reality? Only English can uplift and develop people? What should be our country's medium of instruction- our languages or English?
I believe before 1857, without studying through English medium we were still highest intellectuals, we were the most developed. So what has happened now? Has we lost the glory or English is the only final solution?

Gmail - Yashwant Sonawane- what was the real truth - hopegovind@gmail.com

2011-02-09T03:15:00.000-08:00

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bavvra man

2011-01-24T23:04:00.001-08:00

Rightly said
Chase your dream and run after this till you get it
No one can take from you whatever is yours

This song is really inspiring for me. First heard in MTHR Pune Event and after that listening everyday. This song gives me lot of peace and even works as a stress reliever

बावरा मन देखने चला एक सपना

बावरे से मन , की देखो बावरी हैं बातें
बावरे से मन , की देखो बावरी हैं बातें
बावरी सी धड़कने हैं , बावरी हैं साँसें
बावरी सी करवटों से , निंदिया दूर भागे
बावरे से नैन चाहे , बावरे झरोखों से , बावरे नज़रों को तकना .
बावरा मन देखने चला एक सपना

बावरे से इस जहाँ मैं बावरा एक साथ हो
इस सायानी भीड़ मैं बस हाथों में तेरा हाथ हो
बावरी सी धुन हो कोई , बावरा एक राग हो
बावरी सी धुन हो कोई , बावरा एक राग हो
बावरे से पैर चाहें , बावरों तरानों के , बावरे से बोल पे थिरकना .
बावरा मन देखने चला एक सपना

बावरा सा हो अँधेरा , बावरी खामोशियाँ
बावरा सा हो अँधेरा , बावरी खामोशियाँ
थरथराती लौ हो मद्धम , बावरी मदहोशियाँ
बावरा एक घूँघटा चाहे , हौले हौले बिन बताये , बावरे से मुखड़े से सरकाना ,
बावरा मन देखने चला एक सपना

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2011-01-08T01:56:00.000-08:00

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HR is a challenging job

2011-01-07T06:23:00.000-08:00

Handling HR position always has been a challenging job for me. When I was in Metropolis the statutory compliance recruitment on time, reports, audit always had been a challenge. In recruitment, for me, the biggest challenge had been background screening.
In my present assignment, I could not close head- accounts. When we are selecting and offering candidates they are not joining (At least 4 such cases) and when we are searching and finalising candidates, we are finding that they were liar.
I don't want to hire anybody and repent later hence I am strictly implementing tough background check measures.
Today, I met such a candidate. He had vast experience. He didn't have good communication but experience wise I found him very well. He was a jobless and in need of urgent job. He had a larger debt and liability. During technical interview his lie come to light. This is really sad

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2010-12-21T23:59:00.001-08:00

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2010-12-10T21:55:00.000-08:00

हाम्रो परिवार

Job is more important than relation

2010-12-06T23:36:00.000-08:00

Just read today's Mumbai mirror
For women, now job has become more important than any relation without any reason. I feel, managing home is itself a greatest job, you show your managerial and administrative capability but the Metropolitan culture has damaged everything.
This news is an eye opener.

Woman knifes son to death after job tiff with hubby

Vijay Singh TNN

Navi Mumbai: A 24-year-old woman, embroiled in a domestic spat with her husband for not allowing her to take up a job, took out her frustration on her three-year-old son by fatally slashing his neck on Monday.
The murder took place at her Ghansoli home in Sector 4 when her son returned from a local pre-school. The accused, Varsha Ghodke, dragged her son, Saurabh, to the bathroom and brutally slashed his neck with a knife. She also inflicted two knife injuries on her own face and wrist. She was rushed to the municipal hospital in Vashi, where she is currently admitted.
Assistant commissioner of police (Vashi ) Mujeeb Shaikh said: ‘‘Though the accused looks visibly normal, she may be mentally and psychological disturbed.’’
He added that the infant’s neck was so badly cut that barely two inches of skin was holding his head to the torso. Investigators further said that Varsha was married to a BEST bus driver, Shashikant Ghodke, in 2004. She was earlier working at a mall in Mumbai where she reportedly had an extramarital affair with someone else. Her husband then decided to shift Varsha back to her mother’s house at Shri Swami Samarth Chawl in Ghansoli, and also did not allow her to work.
‘‘Unable to take these restrictions, the accused even ran away from her Ghansoli house earlier this year. She later returned on her own without offering any explanations,’’ said ACP Shaikh.
The police believe that the accused must have been severely distressed with her failing marriage and lack of job, leading to this shocking murder. Her mother had also reportedly asked her not to work, which seemed to have angered her further.

Varsha Ghodke

A photo of Saurabh as a baby in their Ghansoli home

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Reservation- A curse on our Indian Society

2010-12-06T23:32:00.000-08:00

Dear all,

This is a report from Times of India. I am firm on my statement given earlier where follower of a self made/ self declared "God" are how courtesyless and mannerless making suffer to people. I also suffered today when I was on the way to my office. Actually I stay in central line of Mumbai and works at western line i.e. Lower Parel and every day I have to change platform from Dadar (Central) to Dadar (Western) to reach my office and dave valuable 15 minutes. It takes hardly 2 minutes everyday to change platform by using foot over bridge but today it took 15 minutes and the people coming from Chaityabhoomi were so mannerless, it was seeming that anytime a stampede can happen. Thanks a lot to police and few awared citizen who protected ladies and children and also controlled the mannerless crowd following from opposite direction.

Following news is enough to tell, reservation has not brought kindness and manner in anyone. Change is constant as per Bhagvad Gita but change can never happen in attitude of such people.

Ambedkar devotees pack Chaityabhoomi to the brim

Traffic Around Dadar Moves At A Snail’s Pace

Sukhada Tatke | TNN

Mumbai: Lakhs poured into the city from all quarters of the country on Monday in a touching display of faith in their leader Dr Babasaheb Ambedkar. From early morning, truckloads of people started inching towards Chaityabhoomi to pay their respects to the Father of the Indian Constitution on his 54^thdeath anniversary. The movement gathered momentum as people from all corners began to converge at Dadar.
Huge posters of the leader dotted the streets and Ambedkar’s devotees sang songs and shouted slogans praising him. Even as the fervour to pay respects to the shrine on Mahaparinirvan Din was at its peak, there were serpentine queues at free eye check-up stalls, medical stores and food stalls set up by political parties at Shivaji Park. As many as 14 lakh people flocked to the shrine.
For 80-year-old Sakharam Kadam of Satara, this is the one day he eagerly looks forward to every year. “I have lost track of the number of times I have come to Chaityabhoomi on this day. Ambedkar’s teachings have given me strength and power to believe in myself. He may have left you several years ago but his thoughts continue to linger and give us hope,” he said.
While the early birds were rewarded with a glimpse of Chaityabhoomi, many of those who arrived by afternoon were in for disappointment when they couldn’t make their way to the shrine because of overwhelming crowds. Gathered at Chaitya Bhoomi to sing praises of their leader and to spread his word, members of the Vidrohi Shahiri Jalsa painstakingly perform street plays and use music to attract attention. Even as thousands of visitors remained glued to their performance in the hot sun engulfed by a blanket of dust, members hoped that at least these pieces of information will help them inch closer towards the world envisaged by the architect of the Indian Constitution.
Seventy-five-year-old Moherbai came all the way from Solapur almost a week earlier. For the Meshram family—a group of 25—from Nagpur, coming to Mumbai is an annual tradition. “There are some first-timers in our group this year, while some of us have been visiting Mumbai for more than two decades,” said Sitabai (65).
Meanwhile, traffic towards Dadar was disrupted. Several motorists had to take a U-turn back home. All shops and establishments in the area were shut and trains ran packed. The traffic police had announced road diversions several days in advance. But traffic snarls were reported at Dharavi T Junction, Veer Savarkar Marg, Senapati Bapat Marg, Dadar railway station area and Sena Bhavan. Cops were present to guide motorists. The situation was brought under control at around 5.15 pm.
Shivaji Park residents faced problems carrying out their daily chores. Ashok Rawat of Shivaji Park ALM said these persist for a week.
Among the dignitaries who visited Chaityabhoomi to pay their tribute were CM Prithviraj Chavan and deputy CM Ajit Pawar, mayor Shraddha Jadhav and civic chief Swadheen Kshatriya.

FAITHFUL CONVERGE: Lakhs congregate at Dadar Chaityabhoomi on Monday

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BMC rustles up 1,000 staffers for clean-up job

Sukhada Tatke | TNN

Mumbai:By the time you read this, the roads in Dadar would have been swept clean. The civic staff was expected to swing into action on Monday night.
BMC officials said that strict orders have been given to workers of the solid waste management team to begin a cleanliness drive from Tuesday midnight. Arterial as well as the smaller internal roads were expected to be cleared of garbage and litter by Monday morning. Shivaji Park was expected to wear a clean look by Tuesday afternoon.
A team of 1,000 workers was expected to work different shifts throughout the night until Tuesday evening. “By 6 am, we will get all the garbage cleared and the roads will be ready for use,” said Devendra Jain, assistant municipal commissioner of the G/North Ward. “Meanwhile, the ground will be made usable for sports by afternoon. We will have to remove all the temporary shelters that we had built there and clean the area,” he added.
Jain said that the staff would use a lot of machines to make sure the roads become spick-and-span. “We will first clear the roads of the garbage and then wash them clean.”
The BMC had made adequate arrangements for lodging at Shivaji Park. Makeshift toilets and drinking water taps were provided along the route to Chaityabhoomi. The BMC’s lifeguards and boats were also stationed along the seafront near Shivaji Park.

ICONIC IMAGE: A follower collects photographs of Dr Ambedkar
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We taxpayer pay heavy taxes for social upliftment and our hard earned money is wasted on such thing. Here I remember one sentence given by my Managing Director Yesterday when we were doing a strategic HR planning "You cannot do another wrong to correct one wrong, your effort should be to correct the wrong without doing any further wrong" and no doubt, our politician has done a new wrong to correct all wrong. This wrong is called "reservation"

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"The world suffers a lot. Not because of the violence of bad people,
But because of the silence of good people!"

--Napoleon

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Directionless Career

2010-11-25T00:52:00.000-08:00

Since I have started to give advisory services voluntarily at Shiksha.com, I am getting lot of queries from student. Not new but interesting fact is their career is headless. One of such query I received is

rom

shrisun

hopegovind at gmail.com

Date

Friday, 19th November, 2010 2:21:00 PM

Subject

Job After BBA

Dear Sir,

I am diploma holder in Instrumentation in 2002 & have been working in the field of Electronic for last seven year. I had no guide or referrer after engineering therefore whatever job I got (Electronic) I accepted so I could not generate any concrete specialization neither in the field of Instrumentation nor electronic therefore I could not secure high salary in this field.

I had an aspiration to start my own business from my childhood & dont wanted to do job & because of the money constraint I started business with different people twice but failed because I had no knowledge. Therefore I decided to enter into the business with my own money & own knowledge. So I took admission in BBA in distance mode from Alagappa University just to get the thorough knowledge of business & currently I am in the last year.

I must tell you that the syllabus of this course is so good that I learn so many important think that I could not achieve in my business venture.

My problem is that I have completely lost my interest in Engineering (because after hard toiling I could not accumulate any money because of lower salary & therefore I dont want to waste any more time in engineering formulas) & I like BBA very much. I hate to go for job & I would love to start my own business but I know it is not possible now. I think by doing BBA & MBA I can secure more salary in job & I can also get some knowledge of business so I can enter in my own business by accumulated money. But for that I have to do job to enter in the field of BBA/MBA. Please suggest me which kind of job should I do (After BBA) so I can be considered for higher salary in future.

You can also mail me to email shreyasvedant1@gmail.com

Awaiting for your reply.

Regards,
Shrisun
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My reply was
Hi
If you are deciding to do job instead of starting own business you must do it from a reputed institute. You can get the details from

http://www.bibschoolsurvey.com/bschool2010/Ranking%20&%20Rating.pdf

if you do MBA from any other institute it is of no use. It is also not wrong if you start your own business.

Just analyse what you want to do, why did you fail, how will you get success.

I wish you all the best

Regards
Govind
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"The world suffers a lot. Not because of the violence of bad people,
But because of the silence of good people!"

--Napoleon

Govind- 9960704146
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Blog: http://simplygovind.blogspot.com

2010-11-23T21:34:00.000-08:00

Some songs are evergreen and they make very strong and deep imprint in our mind. Whenever we listen such song, we feel relieved, stress free and even when our voice is not rhythematic, we just want to hum such song. Aamir is lessor known but critically praised movie and I too watched it twice. Its 3 songs I like the most. They are evergreen. One of such song "Chakkar Ghumyo" I found very relevant to my life and listened thrice today.

Are Chalthe Chalthe Hai Hai,
Hallu Hallu Dhai Baaiy
Are Dekho Bhai Bhaaye Saai,
Zindagi Ki Chaai Chaai Ohhh
Are Nikle The Kahan Ko,
Aur Kidar Ku Aaye
Chakkar Ghumyo….Chakkar..Chakkar….Chakkar..Chakkar
Palle Kuch Pade Na,
Koi Samjhaye Chakkar Ghumyo
Chakkar..Chakkar…Chakkar

Are Ghumyo Re…..Ghumyo Chakkar Ghumyo
Are Ghumyo Re…..Ghumyo Chakkar Ghumyo..Chakkar..Chakkar

Le Phooti, Kismat Ki Tooti Matki Re Phooti
Dadarlaagi To Chitki Khel Kabaddi Laaga, Khel Kabaddi Laaga
Bhool Ke Duniyadhari Yaara Khel Kabaddi Laaga
Neendh Khuli Koi Jaaga, Neendh Khuli Jo Hai Chakkar Ghumyo
Chakkar…Chakkar…Chakkar….

Palle Kuch Pade Na,
Koi Samjhaye Chakkar Ghumyo
Chakkar..Chakkar…Chakkar

Are Ghumyo Re…..Ghumyo ….Re Ghumyo Chakkar Ghumyo
Are Ghumyo Re…..Ghumyo ….Re Ghumyo Chakkar Ghumyo..Chakkar..Chakkar

Chikotti, Bhakth Ne Kaati Aisi Chikotti Khunnas Mein Teri Satki
Cheenk Tumhaare Laaga, Are Cheenk Tumhaare Laaga
Jaana Tujho Dhul Padi To Cheenk Tumhaare Laaga
Neendh Khuli Koi Jaaga, Neendh Khuli Jo Hai Chakkar Ghumyo
Chakkar…Chakkar…Chakkar….

Palle Kuch Pade Na,
Koi Samjhaye Chakkar Ghumyo
Chakkar..Chakkar…Chakkar

Are Ghumyo Re…..Ghumyo ….Re Ghumyo Chakkar Ghumyo
Are Ghumyo Re…..Ghumyo ….Re Ghumyo Chakkar Ghumyo..Chakkar..Chakkar

Really good one...

Ambedkar is responsible for brining inequality in the society

2010-11-23T03:32:00.000-08:00

Hi
This is the article I replied to somebody on Bharat Uday Mission Group and I am firm on my statement.
For many days I have not written anything in my blog so decided to put this:

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Dear Sudhir,

This is not shocking and this is the truth.

When I started reading your article, I thought you are writing about Hindu Sadhus who beg and live their life on Bhiksha but when I started reading your article, I guessed they must be follower of Dr. Ambedkar.

Well, this is well known truth that politicians have made most harm to India and Bhimrao Ambedkar is not an exception. This is also true that he was jealous to Mahatma Gandhi. He realised that all people are praising Gandhiji then who will praise him and he finally introduced reservation in constituency and this reservation is killing everybody today and everyone is suffering.

It was his intentional work and he was second British who divided India in caste
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Dear Govind,

Harijans and untouchables were treated very badly for ex they were not allowed to go to temples etc.

Dr. Ambedkar influnced these downtrodden with a new religion so that they were not untouchables anymore. Reservations for few years after independence thought as necessary. Now if it is necessary or effective is a big debate. This is a political issue and I do not think Dr. Ambedkar has anything to do with it.

(I am from a open category inspite I still respect person like Dr. Ambedkar bcoz reservations and other political drama was not influenced by him)

Regards,

Rahul
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Dear Rahul,

Thanks for the reply. Earlier I was also under the same impression whatever you have. We have to understand here that Dr. Ambedkar was not an ordinary man. He was highly intellectual and well aware with all consequences. It was his political drama.
Making reservation for deserving people is not crime but when these reservations are used by rich such backward classes people, this is crime.

I have seen a lot of life since my childhood. I am from a Brahmin family and I have seen how they were treated. My family members used to give them water from a distance, there were separate utensils for them to have food but time has changed now and my parents who used to believe in untouchability they are strongly opposing the same.

If you see today in interior, rural part still the practice is continuing. But in the city, thing is different. These "untouchables" are increasing slum, goodagardi and everything. None but Ambedkar is responsible for this.

Regards
Govind

Job - Marketing Executive and Senior Marketing Executive - Mumbai - Beaute Boutique retail stores (A division of Aromatan Cosmetics Pvt. Ltd.) - 1-to-4 years of experience - Jobs India

2010-09-23T05:02:00.000-07:00

Job - Marketing Executive and Senior Marketing Executive - Mumbai - Beaute Boutique retail stores (A division of Aromatan Cosmetics Pvt. Ltd.) - 1-to-4 years of experience - Jobs India

A new dimension of life

2010-08-07T04:17:00.000-07:00

Today I left home at around 8.15 am. Expecting huge travelling cost from Saibaba route I decided to go via Kalher Thane route.
The bhiwandi traffic branch had blocked road for maintenance purpose so most of the busses stopped before Kasheli bridge. I saw many men and women walking on the road to reach their offices at Kalher and it was looking very nice.
After so many years, I found Bhiwandi is not so dirty for which I am forced to see every day and habitual.

What is rape? Are rape cases are really rapes?

2010-06-16T10:03:00.001-07:00

Today after publishing two blogs through my mobile I had no enthusiasm to write another article however while going through a news article in today's times of India, it drew my attention and encourage to express my feelings. For past few years I am coming across strange news where women for a specific favour come into contract with men and when they feel that their ambition to get something by giving flesh not completed, they file rape case. I don't understand how can court consider it as a rape case? By this I am not supporting the accused. I mean to say that the charges should be considered under cheating of Indian Penal Code and as breach of contract under Indian contracts Act. Lets see few such cases: in today's times of India it appeared that a woman was staying with a constable and they had physical relationship for almost 3 years and the lady had affair with the constable. The constable was a married man and he had promised to this lady that he will give divorce to his wife and marry this woman. Finally he didn't marry as per contract they had and in anger this woman misused loopholes in law. Same with Madhur Bhandarkar and aspiring actress Priti Jain. She slept with him at various occasion in exchange of role in movie. So it was not forced rather mutually agreed then how does it falls in category of rape? Further, if I am married and I force my wife to have sexual relationship this also falls under rape but how and why? Shouldn't it be considered under domestic violence Act? Isn't one of the purpose of marriage to regulate and satisfy sexual desire? Isn't sexual desire with life partner a need comparable with need for food and sleep? This is time to think over it and need to examine thoroughly law before levying any charges. Levying charges for rape to help to settle personal score and not getting things as per contract will be insulting honour, self esteem and modesty of all women who rate their chastity whole life who are pure and who don't sell themselves for

My wishes

2010-06-15T22:35:00.001-07:00

What will be my wishes and if asked? I will answer : to always have Jasmine in my life as she was in past the most caring person after my parents and sisters, myself to be time punctual, life full of struggle with sense of achievement every time, very cordial and lovely relationship with Laxmi as we have many times including today morning, real happiness in life and peaceful life and enough money and time to serve people. I am waiting for slow train at dadar and already finished two songs listening and already posted one blog and near to publish another. Now I am having strong desire to eat ragda puri but train has finally arrived after long wait and naturally too crowded than usual

Rainy reason again

2010-06-15T22:20:00.001-07:00

Rainy season always make me happy. It gives me lot of joy. Enjoying rain showers while travelling add another dimension into my joys. I never use raincoat umbrella to protect myself. I don't think I need to protect myself from natural things like rain which in fact We should enjoy. Today I reached early to bus stop but it is of no use and I got bus after half an hour and again a huge traffic ahead Mankoli as expected. I finally managed to get 10.04 CST fast from Thane. Plugging in earphone to my ear, listening Rahman's music with songs like AAYO RE SAKHI, GHANAN GHANAN and BARSO RE really giving a joy. It took almost 3 hours to reach dadar now. I am already late for office and need to worry but I want to keep myself happy. I wished I should have been in train's door to enjoy the rain fullest.

Electromagnetic radiation

2010-06-15T08:20:00.001-07:00

For past two weeks Tehelka is publishing about electromagnetic radiation emitted through mobile towers in Mumbai and Delhi. The first issue how a person who was using mobile for 8 years in Delhi suffered from paralysis due to electromagnetic radiation emitted through antennae of his cell phone and in later issue how 4 people from same building in an apartment in Ulhasnagar died due to blood cancer and the fact was that this building was facing a mobile tower. The paper also showed how the electromagnetic radiation affects cell development in eggs. This has deepened my worry and provided strength to my belief to live Vedic cultured life. I have been always against of using machines at home. I know few people including my wife will consider me as insane but I know I am not. My mind is greatly influenced by self consciousness and not by any other factors. I never liked food cooked in microwave oven. I never liked food preserved in fridge, I never liked water from fridge. I always preferred sweat dripping from my body rather than my sweat dried by air conditioners. Where we are leading? Are we leading to make it comfortable or we are being our own enemies by surrounding ourselves with these slow poison emitting machines. When nature or God created and men and women there was clear division of work. Men will earn by working outside and women will manage guests children and family. She was a perfect strategist and manager handling home and the best advisor for her husband. Today the world is different on name of women's equality the question is raised why she shouldn't work in office means the household work is low quality work for them and it is matter of slavery. Earlier when there was clear cut division of labour women used to cook food by own, used to grind spices and grains by hand and used to wash clothes by hand so she had perfect figure, well balanced body, natural beauty and most healthy and now picture is completely different. All wants to work in office to prove

Will Bhiwandi improve

2010-06-14T09:24:00.001-07:00

Right now I am travelling in a ST bus from Thane to Bhiwandi. I left office from lower parel at around 7 PM.Then I came to know about traffic situation in Kalher through Amol, I worried about Laxmi and called her to ask about her whereabouts. Luckily Amol was there only so after waiting for half an hour he net her and they both went on bike. I waited almost half an hour at st stand Thane the mad and highly uncivilised crowd who have no respect for women and humanity, entering in bus from windows. During this half an hour not a single ST bus came from Bhiwandi. All were from pune and other out location. I expected heavy traffic at Mankoli but for my suprise it was not there. Now I am moving smoothly. I am expected to reach home in 15 minutes but the daily suffering specificaly mentally the rowdy crowd, inefficient and careless ST officials at Bhiwandi increasing my anger and frustration. Can't we become civilised and responsible? Can't these careless people realise pain. Today it took me almost 3 and half hours to reach my home which is just 50 Kms away from my job location which can be easily travelled in one and half hours. I am not able to put full efforts to improve the situation but I am not going to give up.

Sense of responsibility

2010-06-13T04:29:00.001-07:00

Earlier it was my opinion that my wife is lacking in understanding family values and cohesiveness with my family. I was wrong in this. The most positive thing is that she is straight forward although sometime it hurts. Other thing is sometime she doesn't show maturity still I found her caring. I have to accept that I am lazy and careless about certain thing including my mother's health. My mother is strong but ailing. She is suffering from bone and skin related problem. Although I gave her money personally I could not take her care personally. The way mother care us, I even didn't care a fraction of that. Suddenly Laxmi self called me and asked address for KEM hospital. This was something which made me very happy. Even after that she is taking regular care of mother's health. Sometime my words are too bitter to swallow even to her I directly tell her she is a career women and not a family woman but this is not completely true. Now she has understood her responsibility and even putting efforts for this. Yes, at some extent I have sense of uncertainty but I am sure she can take care of parents well. She deserve respect and praise for this

Flexible ethics

2010-06-12T20:42:00.001-07:00

On friday June 11 I got an opportunity to attend programme at hotel united 21 for Thane HR meet. It was indeed a good meeting. I thought i am attending my MBA lectures where professors from rich industrial experience shared their knowledge. Exactly same happened here. One of the most important topics i liked was flexible ethics. It is exactly same way i was thinking for a long. People talk about ethics but when the matter come to their benefit or loss they make it flexible as per their need. I firmly believe we should follow ethical way of life and do have a clear cut borderline between what is wrong and what is right. Unfortunately this doesn't happen.

Human behaviour

2010-06-12T10:59:00.001-07:00

Human behaviour is very difficult to understand. In my hr career during the 2 years employee background screening rather than relying on referees given by applicants i always preferred to do a cross check by directly calling to hr department and other employees of company to find whether that person is a bonafide employee or not and to find out reason for leaving and also find out present salary. While doing such a process to fill out a position i one of my director and md liked a candidate but in my own style of background checking i found he left the job six months back. The candidate was full of confident till we didn't confronted him and after that his way behaviour and communication completely changed. The person who was fully matured became emotional and told his every feelings and experience about his past company. Although we are recruiting him but this has taught me a good lesson

Opening for Software Support/ IT Coordinator

2010-05-14T23:14:00.000-07:00

Opening for Software Support/ IT Coordinator: "mpany profile: We are one of the fastest growing retail company with 58 stores spread across Mumbai, Pune, Cochin, Chennai and Bangalore with huge expans..."

Job opening for supervisor

2010-05-14T00:12:00.001-07:00

Mumbai University- A degree selling university

2010-04-28T01:22:00.000-07:00

April 28, 2010
To,
The Controller of Examination/ Vice Chancellor
University of Mumbai
Dear Sir,
There is a serious complaint from the students during third year B.Sc. exam of university of Mumbai at PAJBSUM’s BNN College of Arts, Commerce and Science, Bhiwandi dist: Thane
Several students are complaining that:
1. Many students including those who belongs to present as well as ex teaching and non teaching staff of the same colleges are given special favour and examiner as well as supervisor self bringing notes and answers and supplying to them
2. Also, it is complained that the examiner as well as supervisors from the said college/ exam centres openly demanding bribe from the students specially student of T.Y. B.Sc. (Chemistry) if they want to do cheating/ use unfair means during exam
3. This complain is there since exam has started
4. Students are not complaining as they are fearing that this is going to affect their career.
5. Due to such act, students have lost faith in education system as well as in the such an old heritage institute i.e. University of Mumbai
6. This is highly demotivating to the students who are doing hard work and putting all efforts to gain knowledge. They are so much frustrated that it is affecting their performance during exam
7. There is possibility is that not only in B.Sc. Chemistry but also it is happening in every exams and also in other colleges in Bhiwandi
8. It seems that the vigilance team is sitting and taking the matter very lightly and it also seems that they have not visited these examination centres
9. Many students specifically Muslim girls are hiding copy materials in their Dupatta and Hijabs. Reason for not doing their thorough check is best known to exam centre incharge/ supervisor and examiner
10. BNN College is notorious for such activities

This is really a serious matter and blot for education system

We, HOPE organization hereby request you to kindly take prompt action as there are still few papers left in the examination and stringent action should be taken at earliest. Anticipating your prompt action in this regards

Regards
Govind Sharma
President, HOPE
(An NGO registered under Registration of Societies Act 1860 and Bombay Public Trust Act 1950)
A8/229, Dev Aashish Apartment
College Road, Dhamankar Naka
Bhiwandi-421305
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My career at new turn

2010-03-26T03:11:00.000-07:00

It took me 4 whole years to struggle in career to get what I wanted.
As a human I always believed on concept and ideas. Ideas that I have learnt by meeting with different people. It includes my first boss Bharat Uncle or Bharat Bhai- Owner of New Padma Medical stores where I started my career as part time salesman at age of 8 years. I was store manager there, I was purchase manager there, I was operation manager there, I was admin manager there and of course a counter sales person. From him, I learnt to utilise opportunities and to manage things. My second Boss was Late Shri. Bhajanlal Mata- Owner of Krishna Medical- a perfect boss. He was a good business developer and man of people. From him I learnt to build relation with people specially customer. From him I learnt not to punish one for mistake rather support him to do work. Unfortunately due to his sad demise I could not get more companionship. After him late Ajay Mata or Ajay Bhai was my next boss. He taught me how to keep aside emoton in business. For him, relation means only money. Still, his business skill was tremendous and he was a diplomatic person. Unfortunately he is not alive now to guide me but he always come in my dream.
After that I failed in my medical business. My next venture was coaching classes in which I succeeded now this is handled by Ramesh. A well organsied and focused man. Finally I thought why to not start my career after graduation and I joined Talent Corner.
In Talent Corner, my mentor was Sujit. Sujit, a perfect mentor, well focused and knows his business well. He also knows how to handle team. I gained my team handling skill from him. With this Rashesh sir- MD of Talent Corner- The greatest thing I learnt as an HR professional from him that- Punish people/ shout people behind closed door and praise them in front of everyone. This is one of the best learning for me. I apply it till now with my team everywhere. I remember when he came to know that we all (I, Sheetal and all) used to spend time in chatting (of course we were doing work but it was affecting productivity), he called all people, he didn't tell anyone's name but told everything softly. This increased respect in my mind for him. We shot the target without bullet.
Thereafter, Anil sir at AK placement. He was a straight forward person. From him I learnt how to give freedom at work and how to refine process. I learnt recruitment in more professional way from him and also how to be professional while communicating with anyone. (This was in case where I was communicating in a very personal way to Stephen @ Aramex and to Swati @ ABM knowledgeware. I have never forgotten that and still applying. This has helped me to behave in more professional way.
At Metropolis I got 4 bosses- Priya Mam (best one); Clifford D'souza (no comments); Russell (good one but biased); Narayan (As a human very good but as a manager- not effective)
From Priya mam, I learnt how to scrutinize every small small thing, also learnt how to document every single work. I have learnt from her not to scold anyone without any mistake. I have learnt from her- even if someone has done wrong with you, if someone wants your help to grow, help them (as in case of Aarti). People have said a lot of thing about her such as politician, diplomatic but this has not decreased my respect for her. Russell, although he was a good boss, he was biased. Thing was not like that I am incapable to do HR strategy but personally I feel, He was feared if I will handle these role then he cannot build step for other. Narayan- from him, I learnt how to be fearless but the negative thing I don't want to learn from him is to pressurize someone without thinking whether the action is justifiable. Both Russell and Narayan never wanted to point out other functional head (I remember- I had forwarded profile for the cardiac physician on same day when I received MR form however functional head did not screen and reply and this delay resulted into cancel my leave and come to office) after thats too, I used to mark most my mail CC to them but still they wanted report from me. I don't see this as a quality of organized manager (I am not so organised but I can handle my role well)

Anyway, from the learning of all these different managers, I have made me more perfect and improvement is still going on. Now I am handling strategic role in HR. My first initiative to systemise attendance and late coming which I have completed within 15 days of joining. My second strategy will be to motivate my sales staff as an HR to yield productivity and third strategy will be to have proper training formulation and implementation and I am sure I will be success in it

About our national anthem

2010-01-28T09:28:00.000-08:00

Since childhood I am singing our national anthem and respecting it too (I still respect national anthem) but for past few years one thing constantly bothered me- What is the meaning of our national anthem? To whom we are praising?

For me, being son of this soil, I know to praise only one thing i.e. my mother land, hindusthan, nothing else but when I searched over the internet for meaning I found that we are praising British as a lord, still independence

Few Relation Never Dies on Earth

2010-01-24T09:26:00.000-08:00

My today's day was mixed. Yesterday I watched 3 idiots. Good one....
In the morning I woke up at around 8.30 although I had planned to sleep upto 9.30 and as usual ritual, I went to my class around 10.15. (I rarely reach to class in time, I don't know why I have not learnt to confined myself with this kind of activities) and suddenly got call from home that Movan Didi has come.
It is allmost after 3-4 years we met. She holds a respectful place in my life. We are not bonded with blood. We used to stay in same class and she was a genious student whereas I am an average. After her SSC, she left study and soon tied to knot. From Jalore to Bhiwandi and fom Bhiwandi to somewhere in Karnatak she travelled but still she remembered me as a brother and came to meet me. Isn't this relation so important? This gave me a lot of joy. Yes, few relationship in earth never dies

Changing face of Government

2010-01-23T09:24:00.000-08:00

Yesterday, I had been invited by the department of employment and self employment, Government of Maharashtra on behalf of my company as an HR representative. I could not believe so many people are lining up there for job. I met at least 105 people finally shortlisted 8-10 from them and called for final interview at my office. I hope I will be able to recruit at least 1 from them now and 1 in near future. Normally I had asssumption that people who don't have any kind of quality roam around employment exchnage but it was not true at all.
I found 5 girl who was good in communication and had pleasing appearance but I saw another seen, two housewives from Ambernath and Lal Baug who were desparately looking for job. I felt they were needy but unfortunately I could not offer them anything. I come across 3 people who were good but had attitude. I come across a person who claimed to be a Yoga teacher charging 2000 rs for 1 hours I wondered what he or say I was there. I thought to learn the technique, leave my job and do this job 2000 Rs for 1 hours, 60000 for a month by working just 1 hour

Anyway, the hospitality and arranbgement was good. I was not shaven properly and feeling a kind of shy. This was really a good initiative and I appreciate it

My relationship with Laxmi

2010-01-05T10:03:00.000-08:00

My relationship with laxmi can be compared exactly as it used to have with Usha and most of the girls- always fighting in the starting
but like wise my relationship with my these friends with whom I fought in the beginning and built a strong bind later, same thing is happening with her too.
When either of us under a lot of anxiety and stress (as this happening now with me with unable to adjust in current office environment with partiality and role of my choice being denied and constantly I have been threatened to be terminated) we are close to each other. Now I see she cares me
This is important for our future relationship

My trip to Ganagapur

2009-11-27T06:35:00.000-08:00

Last Friday, I and Amol decided to have a short tour and as he was insisting, we had been to Gangapur (A town in Karnataka state in Maharashtra Karnataka Border famous for Lord Datta temple).
We started journey on Friday night. After office I directly went to CST, bought general ticket (As our sleeper class reservation was not confirmed) and luckily got seat to sit on top.
Whole night we both couldn't sleep as Amol was not habitual to sleep in that condition and I had only place so sit.
Very true, you will be able to know the suffering when you self put yourself on that place.
It was perhaps 3rd or 4th time in my life when I travelled through general class on long distance. (Yes, I have travelled to Pune but it was different as it was just 3 hours journey and I usually used to get seat there). On the way, I got many experience.
First I saw a newly married couple. We first thought they were mad to come in general compartment but these 10 hours observation was quite satisfying. The lady had no complain with her husband and they both were enjoying. The husband wanted to show love as well as affection but the wfie was feeling a sort of hesitation even to sleep on his sleeves. It brought a smile on my face. Very true, your life partner should be able to adjust with you even in the extreme condition, whatever it may be.
The next was a Banjara family. They were looking poor with 3 children but for our surprise, he bought ticket of around Rs. 150 per head but on the way, definitely he had spent around 200 per head. He used to buy everything as his child demanded. He had the life style of Khanbadosh, enjoying every moment of life without fearing for future.
We reached Gangapur Road at around 12 pm next day i.e. Saturday and reached to Gangapur which is around 22 KM from there. I liked the way, the farm land and the natural environment. Our next target was to search an economical hotel and finally we got one @ 200 room for 24 hours. We also got cheap food at around 70 Rs for both for 1 time meal and it was really tasty and worth.
We took our lunch and went to sleep for 2 hours. Then we took our bath and visited the temple.
In the temple, I saw some people suffering from mental disorder, dancing on floor, climbing on pole and a person playing musical instrument which was not melodious at all. This gave us a feeling, thanks god, we are much better than them.
Our next Journey was for Akkalkot on Sunday. It is a also a nice place. We shot some photos, had tea there and moved for Solapur.
Solapur, as per our past experience, with the people who can betray you any moment. First Rickshawwala charged us double, hotel food was not upto the mark for afternoon then the Chaddarwala charged us double but in the evening we got good food.
We saw an India where women were encouraged to work in a hotel with proper dress code. I saw how they were managing their job with politeness and kindness.
Finally we started our journey back to Mumbai.The journey had started on 20th November and ended on 22nd November.
Again, in my life, I paid bribe to convert my general ticket into reserved one to have comfortable journey and second time in my life someone tagged me as coward. This time the person was different, it was Amol.
Perhaps I am.
Anyway, journey was good with lot of experience
यूँ ही चला चल राही यूँ ही चला चल राही
कितनी हसीं है यह दुनिया
भूल सारे झमेले देख फूलों के मेले
कितनी रंगीन है यह दुनिया
दिल को है क्यूँ यह बेताबी किससे मुलाक़ात होनी है
शायद जिसका अरमान था फिर से वोही बात होनी है
बस आज के लिए इतना ही

Dream builds and breaks

2009-11-08T05:54:00.000-08:00

Perhaps this is the life
same has happened

Perhaps adjusting with life thats why I remember and like these lines

khawabon se khelne komann hota hai...mann hoootaaaa haihaathon se chunay komann hota hai..mann hai...kisi ki naa pe roo dun tokhilonay toot jaye tokoi jab mugh se puchaykyun rota haimann hota hai..mann hoootaaa hai...khawabon se khelne komann hota hai..mann hoootaaa hai...haathon se chunay komann hota hai..mann hoootaaa hai...khawabon se khelne komann hota hai..mann hai...haathon se chunay komann hota hai..mann hoootaaa hai...kabhi sardi ki raaton meinkoi khirki jo kholun toliye muskaan chehre pekoi hota haimann hota haimann hootaaa hai..khawabon se khelne komann hota hai..mann hoootaaa hai...haathon se chunay komann hota hai..mann hai...

Disha

2009-11-01T09:13:00.000-08:00

Today when there was no cable connectivity at home, I went through my movies collection. First I watched 20 sal baad, a suspense thriller and my guess about the killer and reason was correct then I next turned to Disha.
This movie has always attracted to me. Nana Patekar, Shabana Azmi, Om Puri, Sayaji shinde, film's music and the songs about bombay (now Mumbai) everything atracted to me.
I tried to search relevance of my real life situation with the characters of the film and I found indeed it is truth.
Nana Patekar who protest his marriage by taking loan and his father's opinion that people judge you hence there is no harm to marry by taking loan and marriage happens once only reminder me much of my father and my mother too.
Thereafter his struggling life as a mill worker (whereas I am an human resources professional :) and planning to earn money to keep him wife happy and to have a home in Mumbai, finally seeing how his wife attracted towards a job contractor to get monetary gain from him.. everything (Although my wife is not like that and I am happy to have one of such a delicate, childish, innocent wife with whom still I am unable to do justice etc.)
Also I searched myself in character of Om puri famous as "pagal parshuram" and find my wife in role of Shabana Azmi who curse his husband for not taking care of family and consider the well which Om puri digging as her Sautan....
I hope whatever is coming to myway should be a positive thing and I must get what I deserve
I still geel guilty for not controlling my mind and I have to learn this anyhow

Is everything pre-destined in our life???

2009-09-08T10:51:00.000-07:00

Sometime we have to believe in ur Karma or destiny whatever we may call it.

Before my marriage I read novel by Shri Rabindranath Tagre and the title was Yogayog

I am tday finding myself in the same situation whatever happened in the novel.

Many of my worst fear come true. I don't know how and why and sometime it happens, as pre-destined, I take the risk knowingly. I pay heavy price for the same to. I listen the song and it happens as exactly in my life. I read the Yogayog and feared if same incident happened with me then? and of course it is happening. I am just waiting for positive things to happen but I don't know how long I need to wait for this

Do Deewane Is Shahar Me Aashiyana Dhundte hain

2009-08-30T10:36:00.000-07:00

We both tried to go out from Bhiwandi and buy a home at good location but the same problem is again,
I need at least 3- 4 lakhs Rs reserve cash to buy the home even in loan and the fact is I am still under debt of same amount. I know it will be feasible only after 2-3 years and by that time, property market will be more up and scarcity will come as a hindrance to our ways.

In this condition I have found 4 solution

1) To say Laxmi " Chhota sa ghar hai yeh magar tum isko pasand kar lo.." and to stay in Bhiwandi for next 5 years for which Laxmi will be hardly agree
2) To sing " Do Deewane is sahar me aashiyana Dhundhte hai" and to search property between Vasai to Virar by arranging funds from various sources
3) To buy Land At Neral/ Karjat/Bhiwandi or Juchandra and to wait for 3-4 more years and build a home
4) Finalise the 2 BHK/ 3 BHK home at Taloja which is cheaper and affordable

I found its extremely difficult to buy home in Mumbai. We both are concerned about our job and home as well as for the future of the child. Of course, He/she should get all traditional value, t he Indian value in which I have strong belief while Laxmi want to give the child western value and of materialistic life for which I am not in favour, also we have to think about out post retirement life hence it is a wiser decision to buy land at hill station and to construct home after 20- 30 years.

Let's see where life takes us.

Sampada.. Mt failure to adopt it

2009-08-30T10:23:00.000-07:00

I have interaction many time with Bibek Anandji who want to create a selfless a nd non materialistic society. Even I thought to contribute on it but I am founding it is extremely difficult for me.
Now, since many days I am feeling to leave everything and to join ISKCON. But I am trapped in such a life where I have no control over my the 5 organ- my tongue, my sexual organ, my ear, my nose and my skin as well as on my brain and thinking process. This is even affecting my day to day life. Sometime I feel I have fed up with this life and there is nothing to live even I think to commit suicide but later I feel I must not do it and I have not been made to do it. It would have been beter if Laxmi would have been a non materialistic person and for her, life's enjoyment would have different thing. I cannot blame her, whatever she is, she is. She needn't to loose her originality and We would require a lot of time to understand each other.
Yesterday I had discussion with Usha and I explained her how Laxmi exactly matches to her and she was laughing a lot. It was a long hour discussion.
I think we both are developing (I and Laxmi) understanding between us. During these days if I have missed someone alot, it is Jasmin. I found her closest and very caring. She had accepted my originality. I don't know why but I feel we will be reunited once again. I curse myself to hurt her for girl like she who had not care for me. My wish is not to see her (I don't want to take her name) in pain and sorrow. She must repent for her foolishness and for Jasmin I pray for her all happiness and success.
My god cannot be so wrong with me. I am getting punishment for my wrong deed

Thats all

A most difficult decision in life

2009-08-30T10:11:00.000-07:00

We can't predict what twist and turn our life can take and where.
Taking decision to marry was although in hurry but it came with some responsibilities and handling life through a new way and process. Regret... sometime I feel I took the decision in so hurry but I have no regret over it. Suddenly something happened for which we both had not planned, it was not planned and hardly we took the decision, It was tough. I feel I became selfish while taking the decision a nd cruel too but We w ere helpless
Lets see

Happiness again

2009-07-28T10:21:00.000-07:00

Finally my worthness proved and I got at least at some extent the things I deserved.
Getting promotion at metropolis was a reward to honour my honesty and to prove my worthness which was spoiled by some people

Return to blogging

2009-06-21T09:05:00.000-07:00

After so long gap (I believe it is almost 4 months) I am returned to blogging. In this four months many things changes both at my professional life and personal life.
At professional level, I lost Priya mam's company which was one of the crucial part of my career. I learnt from her how to make perfect ourself to have immunity from any ups and down in future. With this I also get Russell sir's company and a new style of learning under him where I learnt how to become more professional and good human being (Priya mam had already blessed with this).
Professionally I came nearer to Seema which we had 3 month's company and I also learnt how, even not being so good in required skill on just base of luck or destiny some gets job (some people are there but I don't want to reveal the name as it would not be proper).
After this, at personal level too, many chnages happened. Those who doubted on my intention and, honesty and integrity came back to me and they are finally again my friends. I am happy that people realised my turth and honesty and they rewarded me for this with re-unison to me. Still the old memory is haunting to me at some manner but I am not facing too much difficulties on this front.
Yes, Finally I got married and now Laxmi is my integral part. Still we are trying to understand each other but perhaps we may require some more time. The experience with her is good and I am happy. At least God can't be dishonest with me and can't take my ordeal for longer. I know it will end soon and I will lead more happy and more peaceful life and those people who have wrong to me, they never can be happy and can't lead the life in peace and those who are honest to me (whether in friendship, enemity relation whatever) they will never be in problem

Are we responsibe youth

2009-02-21T09:44:00.000-08:00

Dear Friends,I came across an article published in today's chaturang (Loksatta). The artice is very nice, well blended and clearly defined by the author whatever she wants to tell.I am completey agree, as youth, we have forgotten our culture and we think that going in the mall/ multipex, participating in dance and all are symbol of being true democratic and iberal.There is no doubt that whatever Muttalik and his Ram Sena has done is wrong but have we youth been doing right?The ast paragraph of the article is extremey well written and I believe in the same concept.This is really worth praising that the author, even being a women has dare to accept the truthunfortunately I don't have her mail ID to say thanks her for such a wonderful articeRecently after posting my response about the Pink chaddhi campaign, mine one friend sent me a mail stating me as "outdated" "pro VHP", "Pro RSS" etc. but where we are wrong if we have proud on our culture?I have aways hated VHP and Bajrang Dal for their inhuman thinking and for rioting but I don't afraid to accept ideology to feel proud on our own culture Please read the artice at: http://www.loksatta.com/daily/20090221/ch01.htm All repies are welcome

Regards
Govind

Small things matters a lot

2009-02-16T08:36:00.000-08:00

Today when I was returning from office, I got a good experience. It taught me how much respect matters.
When I was entering 7.01 PM Kalyan fast from Dadar, I met some of employees. He ask me to come in vendor compartment (why to mind enetering in the compartment even it is not so clean and smelling). I saw one more employee was there. In thr group, he offered me seat. Till Thane, they were thinking if I am uncomfortable whether I am getting proper ventilation or not.
Although I am a common person and for them I belong to HR department but moreover for them I am a friend and I deserve respectful place
What else we need in our life
Now I can say proudly although I have not earned enough money, I have earned people in my life

I am strong supporter of my culture

2009-02-13T02:16:00.000-08:00

Hi
thnaks for your mail
I am not confused in my view and nothing else
I need to discuss a lot and long to put my view before you completely. Meanwhile I can say only one thing..

Put the simple test
"allow your son/daughter on valentine day or during any normal day to behave in very indescent manner at public places, allow them to drink liquor and change boy friend/ girl freind every year and also physical relationship too"

If you are allowing so and accepting it as a "global village" then we need to think who are in confused state?
I have cleared in my very first mail the summary is as follows:
1. Love is pure and eternal. Indian culture was never against of love and it is never. Being an Indian I am also not against of love.
2. Love is not physical or material; it is pure as pure as wind and water from Gangotri. The relationship between Meera and Krishna, love between Radha and Krishna, love between Gopis and Krishna, relationship between Shabari and Ram was love. Was it physical? Whatever youth are doing today is it real love? Can love be a physical thing? Do you want to say that our old Ashram system is meaning less (Four Ashram's of life and to obtain knowledge and wisdom in Ashram and even kings were getting education through way of Bhiksha and earning by their own hard work; not by sitting in fully air conditioned classroom)
3. I never said I am supporting Shriram Sena but I told there is nothing wrong if we opt to protect our culture
4. If you are comparing Indian culture with western one, are they really happy in their own culture?
5. Shriram sena declared that they will force to marry couples found celebrating valentine day. My question is what is wrong to marry someone whom you love? If you are opposing this statement this means you are not loving the person as you don't have dare to marry becuase it is mere a physical attraction not love.Then shouldn't we protest such act?

I believe you have not understood the Indian culture well. In Indian culture women are respected as Devis in form of Laxmi, Saraswati and so on.. have you ever heard this Devis drinking and behaving at such manner? It is applicable to man too. In Indian culture through Swayamvar system girls were allowed to choose their life partner, they were allowed to do administration work and I know this is my culture and respect too. In fact, my mother is an entrepreneur she travels alone to length and bradth of the country and even to Nepal and do business; our entire family had never probelm in that and I feel proud on her. Even I am from a poor farmer family, today wherever I am due to her only. She also has friends among male. This we call the having mindset of global village and even I have given so much autonomy to my sisters. Even we have allowed her to marry as per her choice and to choose her life partner but we have never allowed her to do anything which is against the culture; our Indian culture on which we have proud.
Whatever Shivsena or so called Ram sena has done, it is definitely not right by vrtue of their action but it is not wrong to stop someone behaving in very indescent manner.
If you remember I have described the incident in my earlier mail; a couple way back to Shirdi was behaving in very indescent manner. They had left home by telling that they are going for Shirdi and Shani Shingnapur (of course Shani Shingnapur is not a picnic place and Shirdi too). They boarded bus at Shirdi, when the half bus was sleeping, they thought all has slept then the boy kept his legs on lap of the girl after this he put his hands on girls neck and after this.. the incident cannot be told.
Last month, my sister had been to Kirti college, Dadar for a presentation. Her friends and she explained me the scene they encountered outside the college in how objectionable condition boys and girls were. It is not my experience or not my words. Even my sister and her friends hated thatDo you want to say it part of "global village" or "liberty of mind"?
I don't think so.
Who have stopped you to celebrate any function or festivals or days but only objection is from vulgarity and the intention. Can you do all the things you do in bed room on road at public places in front of all?
We must choose our words and statements carefully beforecoming to any conclusion or giving statement
I don't think I am mentally unstable or in confused state.
As cleared, I am pround to be an Indian and on my culture where, love is eternal thing not the material and physical. Here, we love someone onlyonce and devote life on that person whole life whether it is Ram or Shabari or Sita or Meera...everywhere
I hope I have cleared my side

Regards
Govind

Am I Selfish

2009-01-26T00:34:00.000-08:00

Today I tried to find out answer for this question whether I am really a selfish animal...

I found reply from myself that I am little bit selfish.

I have become selfish in various occassion with my friends and specially with Ramesh for which he never deserves.

I became selfish to Vikas, Kiran and Arvind when I wanted her company and none else with us so many time I lied them on the way to travel. It was really a mistake.

Today Arvind also made me to realise that in fact I am selfish. I protest law breakers and expect that everyone should abide with it. In my life also, at maximum extent I have abided with it. However On Sunday, 18th Jan 09 when I with Shyam and my friends, we were 3 in each bike which was against law but I broke it.
I don't know how much I am wrong but this is sure that I am wrong here

My meet with soul mate...

2009-01-20T09:18:00.000-08:00

I ha some doubt about our relationship. Although today I am very tired after SUCH A LONG JOURNEY... and almost 7 DAYS OF SOLITUDE.... but I thought to write blog at least.
When I met Laxmi today.. I found we are more comfortable with each other... also her costume was not irritating to me and she was also looking more beautiful. In our so many days meet, first time I saw true joy on her face and also we disclosed more about ourselves. That all I was wanted always. I think she will take care of my parents properly. Still the essence of being a Hindu and Indianness is in her. On this B'day I didn't get any gift from anyone (Although it is formality but I had expected that I will get it from my beloved friends but I can understand.. everyone is busy in their work) but today I got shoes as a gift from her. First I though SHOES..... I expected something which I can keep life time but later realise that I can also keep this for life time even after using it and if it tears.. it doesn't matter
I don't know why I grew attachment with her as well as from this gift. Yesterday I was away from her.. today I am doubly near to her.
I know out of my some good Karmas I have done in my life.. we will be able to adjust and make our life hapy. I m now more concerned about our future. I want to aim higher, achieve more and earn name fame and money so I can give everything to her as well as to my parents.
Lets see where future takes us.....................
In waiting of a good fortune and a true soulmate

Govind @ KK

Life is...

2009-01-19T10:14:00.000-08:00

On 17th.. I was in mix state of happy and sad. On my B'day first time Supriya and Sujit didn't wish me. At least from them I had not expected. I can understand. Even I forget B'day of many friends. Perhaps I expect much more from people.
I am feeling my life is full of uncertaity, don't know how to explore it.
From my future life partner, I expect that she should share everything with me but perhaps she has yet fully not accepted me. Sometime I fear if this continue...
I expect a lot of sacrifice, devotion and adjustment, the dream I couldn't complete alone, want to complete with Laxmi but she is still mysterious for me.
For everything, I am fearing. I don't know what is going to happen
Perhaps I think too much or I doubt t oo much in my life. I want to love her only (Of course with my family and she is part of it now) but...
We have very different life style, I am against of Lavish and western culture however she is habitual to live in that culture.. Lets see where life leads
Sometime she gives me a lot of hope. At least it is better that we have cleared a lot of things between us before getting engaged.
I am sad.. Jasmin also didn't wish me on my B'day.. from her I had never expected such rudeness... It happens perhaps it is life...

Giving interview for searching soulmate

2008-12-31T20:21:00.000-08:00

It was my first experience to interact with someone for searching soulmate.

People generally ask whether I will select or reject someone. I don't understand why to reject or select someone? Is it possible for someone to select or reject.
I don't believe that in just a meet you can select or reject someone. We take 3-4 rounds of candidate with confidence that he/she will join and stay longer in our organisation for a longer commitment and in confidence we say he / she is a good candidate, however many time our assumption get wrongs and this is the matter of whole life where we have to come in mutual trust, understanding and respect for life time commitment (It is not job to chnage once you dissatisfied with it, it is life long responsibility).
I was not scared with Laxmi at all. I was neutral while talking to her and my straight away question was whether she is interested for marriage or not. I saw a kind of discomfort on her face. I realise that something is going in her mind and it was seeming that she is being ready unwillingly which I informed to my parents too.
It is nice that she is open and well educated too. At least she is not kind of person who has protest if I talk to somebody.
Lets see, perhaps this is going to be a long relationship and we will understand each other. Time is powerful

Friends are my life

2008-12-14T08:32:00.000-08:00

If someone ask me what you have earned in your life.. I can proudly say that friends.
The friends who have prominent place in my life are many.. some of them has played great roles in my development. I canot give priority numbers to them as each of them has individual roles. I can proudly say that they have helped me in every way of my life

Ramesh
Dilip
Suhel
Arvind
Vikas
Kiran
Vinit
Bipin
Ajay
Sujit
Supriya
Usha
Swati Dhakkan :)
Amol
Jasmin
NJ (New Journey as I don't want to discolse her name)

There are many other people but specifically I want to include these people's name. I know very well that when the entire world will stand against me, these people will be there to suport me. How can I forget that when I incured huge loss in medical, these people were there to help me, how can I forget that when I was wrong and people were alleging me, these people put trust on me, how can I forget that when I was going through the Trauma, these people consloed me. Although SWati don't talk to me a lot but she has been a nice advisor to me. Jasmin is awesome as she suported me till before she married during June and I lost a nice person from my life (Now we are not in touch), how can I forget Ajay who was ready to beat the person who planned to beat me. How can I forget Sujit, Supriya adn Swati who put trust on me and I never got any kind of feeling that they are just pretending to suport me
I am really lucky. I must not become sad. I know I am right and they know too.
I have faith in God. Everything will be counted

Regards
Govind

My father's birthday

2008-12-14T08:04:00.000-08:00

Altough my father live a very simple life (No taste preference, not habitual to go out for dinner, home food loving person, wearing simple shirts and pants) but I know very well that as a humn being he also has expectation.
On his birthday this time, I gifted him a mobile handset as he had fed up with the unauthorised deduction of balance from reliance mobile. Also, this mobile's life had come to the end. On 11th December when the clock striked 12.00 we entered into 12th December and I presented him the handset
I felt a lot of hapiness over his face and even I was tired, I felt hapiness too. I never saw him so much happy before. Although he is very strict in religious matter and cultural mater (as he tells me you won't marry a non-vaishnav and a non- brahmin girl and thats too should be from the same linguistic community) but I have seen him rebelling against his own principle for my hapiness.What else we can expect from anice family?
I have no proudiness of being a Vasihnav Brahmin but I have proud on my family
at least they have not played emotionaly with anyone and not betrayed to anyone 2
For me, Telugu people were not trustworthy from begining (Kiran and Arvind are exception for this) now it has become more stronger. They can play with you emotionally to gain their benefit.
.. I want to come to the topic again. Yesterday when my Pitaji asked me for earphone, I surprised, I never heard or saw him listening music but yesterday..
At least I am hapy that I could give him some happiness. Although we have differences, we have great understanding

... my Pitaji and mummy both are great.. my family too...

Meri Maa

2008-12-08T01:03:00.000-08:00

I thought to write about this many times but due to time constraints I could not do the same.
Well, I read in a spiritual book (Not only in book but I strongly believe in this principle too) We should give thanks for everything that we get and that is good for us then I must give thanks to my family and specially to my mother.
She doesn't become agree on many things with me may be it political, relationship or social but she has greater understanding of human feelings and she respects it most. She is religious and I am not that too much. We belongs to Vaishnav Brahman family whether marrying a non-Vaishnav girl is restricted and prohibited even if she is Brahmin but she has gave me liberty to choose my life partner. Even she said in many occassion "What does a caste and religion matters?"
Although she is not so educated but able to read write Hindi as well as in some manner English, she has such a liberal view. When last Sunday we were together returning from Vasai after attending Sujit's marriage, She asked me if I am interested to marriage Jasmin and if she is saying yes, I can go ahead

What else do you expect from a trditional Hindu family. There are certain cases where she has shown her love, care affection. Even she did not say her completely wrong although told that whatever behaviour she did just 6 months back when Deepa came, after that she thought that she (that girl) will ask her parents that she will marry to me only. My mom is really great

I lost a precious gem from my treasure

2008-12-02T05:56:00.000-08:00

Now a days I remember every single days when I first met to Jasmin.
She was the girl who was ready to leave entire world as she wants to be with me forever and my biggest mistake is that for a girl who can be never honest to any relationship, I didn't give any single thought to her.
I remember, whether she used to see a bad dream or want to share something, she used to approach me directly. She accepted my originality and now she is not with me. I cannot forget her for life time. I am her debtor when she handled me most time.
Thanks a lot Jasmin to be my friend and to give your 2 1/2 valuable years.She was my one of the honest and true friends.

Regards
Govind

Finally it happened

2008-12-02T05:50:00.000-08:00

Finally Sujit and Supriya tied in knot this Sunday. It was really a happy things for me as I dreamt it much before. I thought it won't come to true as they both had different life styles and thinking but with some understanding, it happened
I imagined the betrayer who used me should not present there and finally it happened. I can only say that if I am truthful in my relationship and if God, exist, if I have ever done a single good deed, the person must get such a punishment that she can neither cry nor become happy. There are certain reason for the same. I am not sad that she didn't become mine, I am cursing becuase she has done mockery of the relationship. "I don't want to marry life time", "I can't live without you", "I can't tolerate the day you will leave me", "Tu agar usko chhuyega to mujhe kuchh ho jayega", "Meri dosti me kya kami thi jo dusro ki dosti ke liye ghumte rahta hai", "I selpt on his shoulder as I was tired" and finally marrying that to asking people "Kaisa hai mera honewala Husbad, achchha hai na.." thats too laughing and accepting all these...
God must make that person's life worst than the hell

Does it teach religion..

2008-12-02T05:40:00.000-08:00

On 26th November, I thought to go Gateway or fort area as my mind was not calm and I was in search of peace. However, I decided to go back to home after office hours and I went to home. Still mind was not calm and I was remembering all my good deeds and trying to find out where I was wrong whose answer I got later on.
After that went to meet a friend who had fight with her wanna be life partner and I respect the girl most due to her maturity and I believe for my friend, she is the best life partner. During that time I got several calls from home. I thought they were worrying about me since I was in big trauma for some days.
When around 11.30 I reached at home, I came to know about terrorist attack at CST and Mumbai. I thought alas.. if I would have been there.
Many times, I had fight with Jasmin about Islam and the propoganda they use. She always use to support Islam but not terrorism and I always used to make the social system in Islamic environment for the same.
The question hanuts me, which religion ask you to hate between a human? Is your God and our God different (If it really exist, I don't think so). Then why do you want to make the world full of blood?
I don't think any religion in the world teach such thing. I was sure that terrorist will attack Mumbai and I would become one of the victim, however I was not that lucky. In the beginning I thought it is common thing, people born, people die but later I also feel that why these poor people who travels daily 100 Kms to earn bread and butter for their family should die? JUst due to some blind people?
I am not sure whether I should hate with the Muslims or not.. but I am sure religion doesn't teach such things

Govind

It is very difficult to remember

2008-11-19T19:20:00.000-08:00

What a human need for alife time commitment?
An honest, loyal, caring and to stop you whenever you are wrong? Where didn't I fit into the bracket? Who will give me the answer. I don't have any hatred but I am fear about her future. I know it will dark. Still have care for the person who never cared me.
I always found songs relevant to my life, the song I remember

"saat janam ka nata tha woh pal me tuta pal hi tha woh
Phir yeh gham kyo, aankhen nam kyon kya bolu main kya na
Sondhi sondhi Khusbu teri, bal khaye kyo harsh meri, jane bhi de jane bhi de
Ji lu ab main jara sa.. tu Bewafa"

It was hight of stupidity. Well, I cannot force anyone with whom the person should spend life. Everyone has such right. I was even ready to spend whole life without marriage but only condition was that I should also get equal care. What else I could sacrifice?
I just want to say the God or lord that if I was not wrong anywhere and was very honest in relationship, the person should not get peace and satisfaction in relationship, her partner must torture her at so extent that she should realise what does mean a caring, she must remember every single moment of happiness I have given by sacrificing my lot of thing and if I was dishonest in the relationship, I should get the same punishment at such extent that neither I can live or die

Thats all..

Perhaps after writing I fell light as there was burden on my heart so I could not stop myself. I got pain for being honest to a person

Thanks to NJ at least 24 X 7 even being just a friend she is taking my care

What is soulmate

2008-11-18T20:21:00.000-08:00

Nothing can be the biggest mockery than of this

Meaning of soul mate, life partner and life

Thats all..

About myself

2008-11-18T20:18:00.000-08:00

I think I should know myself. I went through a forwarded calculator and when I entered my Date of Birth I found my description as follows and I found it very correct.

* Ambitious and serious
* Loves to teach and be taught
* Always looking at people's flaws and weaknesses
* Likes to criticize
* Hardworking and productive
* Smart, neat and organized
* Sensitive and has deep thoughts
* Knows how to make others happy
* Quiet unless excited or tensed
* Rather reserved
* Highly attentive
* Resistant to illnesses but prone to colds
* Romantic but has difficulties expressing love
* Loves children
* Homely person
* Loyal
* Needs to improve social abilities
* Easily jealous

Thanks to NJ, Amit and Arvind

2008-11-18T09:15:00.000-08:00

Yesterday I realise that how immature people can be and how they can take such decision.
I simply cannot hate.. even thought to call and stop from taking such immature decision but I was helpless

I remember Sunday when I was just front but she changed way..

I didn't feel much pain

later at home I came to know the paining news. NJ, Arvind and Amit all shared at east 2 hours each
These heped me a lot
I am thankful to all of them

My encounter with death

2008-11-18T09:07:00.000-08:00

Perhaps it has destined.. perhaps I have lived my ife enough. I know I cannot die for a girl at least, I cannot commit suicide for this thing.
I have lost nothing rather the other person has, but I have no wilingness to carry the burden anymore.
During this month, death came near to me at east at thrice.
Whie boarding Kalyan bound fast train, I slipped and my half body was inside moving train. I fet nothing. Death has to come and surey one day it wil but even I was not so lucky on this. The other co-passenger pulled me and I had been saved.

Just on Saturday, I was in so hurry to catch 8.30 fast Thane bound local. I was already late, so rather than going through the over bridge, I though to jump from platform no.2 to reach 3. I didn't see the coming train. As I stepped further to jump, the moving train gave horn and I back else, I woud have been into pieces.
Even yesterday at Thane, when I was going through the road, a tanker moved.

Perhaps God also want that I shoud suffer thats why...

lets see how much I have to suffer

Beautiful Poem by Shri Rabindranath Tagore

2008-11-12T21:55:00.000-08:00

Go not to the temple to put flowers upon the feet of God,First fill your own house with the Fragrance of love...Go not to the temple to light candles before the altar ofGod,First remove the darkness of sin from your heart...Go not to the temple to bow down your head in prayer,First learn to bow in humility before your fellowmen...Go not to the temple to pray on bended knees,First bend down to lift someone who is down-trodden. ..Go not to the temple to ask for forgiveness for your sins, First forgive from your heart those who have sinned against you.

Don’t we find it relevance to our day to day life?

Regards
Govind

Songs are my life

2008-11-09T09:29:00.000-08:00

Songs play important part in our life. From the childhood onwards, I used to listen songs and I had collection of 300+ cassettes. Everything ended but my madness for songs are never ending.
I am a very bad singer. :)
People laugh at me when I sing. Even once Usha told me in TC (चुप हो जाओ बेसुरे) I know she will laugh a lot when she will read this and she will say (हे भगवान्! क्या हो तुम? इतनी बातें तुम्हे कैसे याद रहती है?)
every lines in songs in collection said me about my life and describes its every moment. Whether it is in happy mood, sadness, relationship, anger.. masti mood everything
When everyone for whom we devote everything in return curse us and give no value to at all.. these songs never do such things. They makes me happy.
Some of the memorable lines such as:
Leja leja re mahki raat me chura ke ssare rang leja

or the line

हम यहाँ तुम वह यह समां लेकिन कहा
शुरू शुरू के प्यार का फ़िर से चलो
चुराए दिल यार का

फिर वाही

रत जगे फ़िर

everything

...................

It really make a difference

2008-11-07T09:41:00.000-08:00

I started to feel very lonely but I am lucky to have friends. Someone from thousand KMS away calls and talks for a long and makes me laugh,it gives me a great joy that they are still my friends. Someone very near and always take my care, it gives me a great joy. It may be Ramesh, may be Suhel, May be Usha or may be Swati K... everyone plays different role in my life. They are there to support me and consloe me. Sometime we think that everything has ended but you find that there are someone who stand to support you.
It really gives a joy when at the midnight send you sms and ask "how are you today", when someone without forgetting without caring for money and their career be in touch whole daym when someone SMS and say to you "Do you remember we have completed 1 month's roday and the day is very special to me"
Although being a friend someone cares a lot.. it makes us feel happy

Lets see where life takes

Is it easy to hate someone after giving prominent place?

2008-11-07T09:23:00.001-08:00

I don't thing it is easy to do so. When you devote your everything towards a person, make them very close to you, whoever it may be,it is not easy to forgive them or hate them. You feel you have not committed any mistake then why did happen and even you easily forgive the person and can never hate the person. You never believe that the person can do this

Anyway, everyone has liberty to live life at theirs own we must leave them to live it accordingly

Time wairs for none so I am not too

...Govind

What people think

2008-10-28T23:40:00.000-07:00

The reply and suggestion is really useful

You are considering it as neither friendship nor love but can you expect from a person to sacrifice everything and when same asked to others, the girl says that “I am not bound to follow you and live life according to you, It is my wish wherever I want to go or whatever I want to do”. Mine this friend has 4 time told her to remain in limit of friendship and behave accordingly.
The girl every time used to say “I cannot live without you, the day you will leave me I cannot tolerate”. She told that she won’t marry lifetime. In response my this friend told that he is also ok to give her support for whole life without marrying but whenever he need her to share his feeling, to spend time with her, she should be ready for this. Finally she didn’t agree for this too and gave reply that even he is not eligible for friendship. ???

Regards
Govind

From: hrbeans@yahoogroups.com [mailto:hrbeans@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of Shaily JhambSent: Wednesday, October 29, 2008 11:02 AMTo: hrbeans@yahoogroups.comSubject: RE: [hrbeans] An issue: Human behaviour

Does this relationship just friendship?...i dun think it was neither love nor friendship..they were just trying to find that special person in each other…this relationship was bound to break becoz it has jealousy and possessiveness as termites..which can kill any smooth relation..
Did this friend did anything wrong by asking clarification on it (It was 4th time same happened)..No, he has right to ask for the clarification becoz after all this is effecting his life ..
What is the further suggestion for them Too complicated !! tell ur friend to focus on his job and forget that girl, this is part of life..n every second person is suffering from this ….we should never force anybody for any kind of relationship..Let go is the best policy ..if she is destined to b in his life..she will come back one day..without even making much efforts..otherwise..he should accept that she IS NOT THE RIGHT FIT FOR HIM…

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From: hrbeans@yahoogroups.com [mailto:hrbeans@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of Govind SharmaSent: Saturday, October 25, 2008 4:29 PMTo: hrbeans@yahoogroups.com; hrindia@yahoogroups.com; PassionHR@yahoogroups.com; SixSigmaHR@yahoogroups.comSubject: [hrbeans] An issue: Human behaviourImportance: High

Dear all,
I need your help in a serious real life issue about human behaviour. Please go through the case as follows:

Mine one friend came in contact with a girl two years ago. The girl was less confident and wanted to do the job to increase her self confidence. My that friend helped her to secure job in the same organization where he used to work. In the beginning, they weren’t even friends. But their relation started to grow. They considered each other’s best friend. Both were possessive. Once while traveling, that gril’s ex- friend whom she once loved met her. My friend felt jealous and he left her in mid between. Till that time my friend was unaware that they were best friends and previously she had proposed him but he refused. When the girl realize that mine this friend left her because in jealously, she stopped to meet her that friend. They boy later proposed the girl (Even before meeting my this friend) but now the girl refused. The boy became very possessive. He used to hike her mail id and password and used to read mails and started to quarrel with her, he slapped her for not meeting. That boy was known to my this friend too. When that boy found that she is closer to my this friend, he stopped to talk with my this friend. Later, they relationship grew at largest extent and my this friend helped her on every mode. They used to hold each other’s hand, want to hide themselves from the world and was interested in living alone with each other only. In the beginning the girl stopped to hold hand as she thought they are just friend. My this friend tried thrice to break relationship and bring the attachment level only upto a friend but this girl was self not ready for the same. The girl self started to hold the hand for which she had protest. That girl used to delete SMS of other girl’s from my friend’s mobile. Whenever he used to talk with any girl so closely, she used to fight. She never used to allow any girl to come near to him. When mine this friend’s a close friend (girl) came to stay at this friend’s residence, she used to fight, feel jealous and even fought. The girl usually used to get up at 8 but when my this friend went early 6 in the morning the girl sent SMS that “If you touch her, something will happen to me” and she said that hr old friend(the same fellow) met her and she is very happy with him even she slept on her shoulder etc.
Later, when mine this friend asked to either don’t behave in such manner if they are just friend or she should accept that she is in love and they should marry.
She replied that it was my friend’s mistake. They were just friends. She has never felt on that way and now she is unwillingly terminating their relationship (Friendship).

The story is summary of entire incident. My this friend cried a lot and the girl accused him of being in fancy. Now, I request you to tell me:
Does this relationship just friendship?
Did this friend did anything wrong by asking clarification on it (It was 4th time same happened)
What is the further suggestion for them

Regards
Govind

Jasmin's Birthday

2008-10-23T07:52:00.000-07:00

Today is Jasmin's Birthday. I didn't forget to wish her too. There is no doubt she is one of my nice friend. Now, perhaps she has settled down in her personal life that's why she doesn't want to call, reply of my any mails to you. I am not feeling of getting hurt as I might have hurt her many time and this is just a punishment for me but I know I am still very honest in every relation. I don't accept the social taboos or norms, I just listen to my hearts and I have done the same but some people are too coward to accept that and I am sure they will cry whole life for their this stupidity and I am showing pity on them. For them , it is a joke to interfere in any person's life too deeply aeven not allowing any to talk with any girls and later saying that "It is your mistake", "We are just friends" and to say that "I will marry to my ex-friend" the same person who slapped, due to whom the person cried every time and never wanted to talk so personally. It is becuase due to same caste and everything. I have no comments on such immaturity but at least I cannot play like this

Let human be human only

2008-10-22T23:08:00.000-07:00

A new wave and theory has started in our nation i.e. State within a state, country within a country, nation within a nation. I am spectacular of such a situation. It is really unhealthy environment.

When we talk about our fundamental rights? Where do we found it? Today, in europe we found european union where 25+ countries come together and decides a common european constituition without loosing their sovereignty and autonomy, where people are allowed to move any of these 25 member countries and they have common currency Euro, which have made them stronger. Where we are actually? We are demanding sepearate Telangana State, We are demanding seperate Vidharbha State, We are demanding seperate Gorkhaland etc. but tell me What progres Jharkhand, Uttarakhand and Chhatisgarh has made? Who has benefited from it except some bastard politician?

When Raj Thakray started anti social, anti national work, who have to suffer? 5 poor people died. What was their mistakes? What happened to Raj Thakray?

I read a story as part of my curricula "The Caucassian Chalk Circle" where group of 2 people fight over the price of land viz. 1) those who were living in that piece of land for years but they were not success to do anything or they6 didn't try it 2) Those who come there and planted fruits and seeds and used the land at best
Now the question came before the king to whom the land should be given? The final conlclusion came that land should be given to them who can utilised it at best. Hence it was given to the second group.
Don't we find it relevance to today's situation in Maharashtra?
About Raj Thakray, he is obviously not fighting for Maharashtrian people. In Maharashtra apart from the unemployment there are lot of Problem. Every year, 10000+ children die due to malnutrition, thousands of farmers commit sucicide, poverty are there, atrocities are there. We can take example of Melaghat where childrens are dieing, we can take example of Gadchiroli where people are turning naxalite due to atrocities on them and exploitation from politicians, landlords and through police and Government machinaries.
If Raj's funda of son of the soil is true, why doesn't he concentrate his work area for these people? Still there are many districts where educations are not available, people are being exploited, people living their life in poverty and hungerness. Why doesn't he sell his all land worth billion dollars in Kohinoor Mill compound and other part of the nation as well as state? His concentration is metro cities and those who are supporting him are goon, the people who are jobless and never have learnt to do hard work. It all are the political stunt of him as well as his co-allies such As Lalu Yadav, Mulayam Singh etc.
I have a lot to say but time is not allowing me. The day won't be far away when our nation will be divided into 35 independent state and again US or any foreign country will invade us and we will cry.

Regards
Govind

Will I get the same care?

2008-10-22T03:04:00.000-07:00

It is very difficult to understand or blame someone, something.
Today as I am suffering from fever, Found myself weak, and remember all those days. Even I was sick, weak but used to wait for someone hours without caring myself. When today I am again sick, in pain, I thought and asked to myself. Does the person has same caring for me or the same kind of feeling? Will get the return same thing?
It was very sad that even in the highest level of depression, I sent message to the person but the person even didn't bother to call me back whether I have reached safely to home or not

Where is our Indian politics heading

2008-10-18T23:14:00.000-07:00

I had constant view on development after each terrorist activity, in our god's own land, India.
Recently we faced terrorist attack in major cities including Delhi and Bangalore. (I'm not a Hindu fundamentalist but I must support the factual things).
After terrorist's attack, Delhi police had an encounter in Delhi's Jamia Nagar. As I was watching news on various news channels including Star News, NDTV India (I trust most this channel), I heard about martydom of Mr. Mohanchand Sharma (a police officer who preferred to arrest the terrorist rather than looking after his ailing son who had hospitalised). Immediately, Government and other bodies decided to reward for his bravery (including so called "samajwadi (socialist)" Mulayam Singh Yadav and Amar Singh too. Then suddenly I got a shocking news that the Vice Chancellor of Jamia Milia Islamia decided to defend the accused students who have been arrested. It was unbelievable. A person in the position of Vice Chancellor can show such kind of immaturity? Is he self really secular? Is he a patriot and Indian National? I believe he is not. Thereafter other shocking news were backing of Arjun Singh (one of the most corrupt politician, present HRD minister who is responsible for bringing inequality in nation by creasing reservation for OBC and increasing creamy layer of OBC (What a sad thing for a nation where 35% people are still living life in misery under tag of people below poverty line without food and shelter as well as education but the people earning 40000 per month which is enough to spend the lavish life style are non-creamy layer i.e. higher education is not affordable for them; all these for vote bank? He is already 60+ how many more years he will live?) and sudden Amar Singh's U turn (Who is one of the womaniser and most corrupt politician as well as an "entrepreneur" stating the encounter as fake. Again, Mamta Banerjee (Chief of Trinamool Congress) who is unable to score any victory in West Bengal also backed the same. She is the lady who is responsible for hampering growth of West bengal, who protested Tata's Nano project just for a political cause which lead to violence and killing of people, suicide of farmers who hoped that they will get a good job due to Tata's nano project.
How much these politician can degrade themselves? At what extent they can go?

Do these people want to state that the encounter as well as arrests are fake? Then who killed Mr. Mohanchand Sharma? Do they mean to say that the bullet got fired automatically or police force themselves have killed Mr. Mohanchand Sharma?
Where are so called news channel who had done coverage of the entire incident? Why don't they tell truth to the people?

It is really sad that everyone of us have sold our everything, our patience, our soul everything.

Regards
Govind

A new innings in life

2008-10-17T06:16:00.000-07:00

I was very busy (Still busy) now in a days thats why I could not write for a long, although I desired for the same.

Whenever you give importance to anyone in your life and the person shows authority on you and behave in a such a manner that you should be of that person only, it is natural that you will also behave in same manner with the person. Well, none of us can live life long alone, we need someone with whom we can share a lot of our life. Of course there are friends but none are for life time. At later life, they will also involve in family life hence we need someone with whom we can talk endlessly and the person who shows authority on you will be obvious choice for the same. But it gives pain when you don't get in return anything from the person and the person deny the fact.
It was very difficult for me to bear all these. Thrice I broke everything and re-connected. Still, I have not ended respect and value for the person. I thought I cannot give her place to anyone and still I feel the same in some manner. But life is very big.
Suddenly some comes in your life without your expectation. The person knows everything about you and ask "Can you give me place of that person?", the person ask everyday "Please tell me how was your day today?", "Even if you cannot give me her place, please give me the right place you think appropriate". Then we remember everything. To travel 30-35 KM on foot to solve the person's problem. Waiting at bus stop everyday 1-3 hours, requesting for every small-small happiness, to leave office early to meet the person. But when you expect the same, the person cannot give you becuase the person has self problem.
What is the hight of stupidity! You cannot talk to any other girl or canot go to close of the girl but still you are just a friend for that person. The person say "If you touch her, you will see my died face" still the person is just a friend.
However, this new person has helped me a lot to forget her and end attachment. Although she is younger than me, not so fair but intellectually she is nice and has good understanding. But I don't want to bear the same pain again. I have clearly asked her to wait, let me end the attachment I had with the person, meanwhile we will meet, talk with each other and understand. If we feel that we can be of each other, we will.
It is true that whatever happens, happens for better. Let's see, perhaps my good time has started and I may start a new innings in life.

Regards
Govind

I want to prove myself

2008-06-25T03:05:00.000-07:00

I took admission in MA however I could not clear second year due to non availability of study materials and my non attendance of lectures. People have alleged me that I am jealous since I cannot score high and come in Merit. However; I have strong desire to prove myself. One day, I will top in any course of my post graduation and I will prove them that how wrong they were. I know I have intellectuality but I have yet not used it. I will show them

I also become angry

2008-06-25T02:55:00.000-07:00

I have lot of angerness when people play politics with me.
I believe in spirit of cooperation and helping each other. I don't criticise people at first instance rather I believe to understand them. I had never thought that people can be such kind of backstabbers. If anyone criticise me; if it is constructive and factual, I never mind to accept it. I m well aware with my drawbacks and my own behaviour. I want independence in work without anyone's interference. I know very well that sometime I am unable to give preference to work I am carrying out; this means not that I am careless towards my duties and responsibilities. I know it very well, although sometime I neglect it; I know how to manage it.
How can people blame me that I am not cooperative and do delay in responsibilities carried out to me? If I complained the same; would you accept it? I don't have any proudiness on my qualification or the degrees I have earned; but I know at what extent I have knowledge of my field' job as well as surrounding. I am a good planner although I am not a good executor. I am not afraid of lossing my job hence free from chamchagiri because I know my talent which never had been accepted here. Although one of you have done your full time MBA from a reputed college, I see you a mentally handicapped who is depend on search engine and ready made things and never applied your mind for anything. At least I am not like that. I know' I will get the place where my worth will be recognized and I will be given right opportunity.

What is my Identity???

2008-06-20T01:47:00.001-07:00

It is a burning issue in my life.
Ever since I have grown up and started to realise the world, I have loved and preferred to known as an Indian only. However the circumstances don't look into my favour. People don't want to have my this identity with me.
I cannot say much more about it

3Ms of relationships

2008-06-19T02:38:00.000-07:00

Why do we give so much importance to relationship? It is a matter worth of debate. This is not a new topic. It is running since long. We can clasify people according to their behaviour with various people into 3 categories viz. 1) Social 2) celf centred and 3) selfish
1) Social: These kind of people are highest in quality, they believe in development of all and to support all.
2) Self centric: This kind of people are those who seek their benefit in whatever they do. They are a kind of back stabbers. They speak less or whatever they speak; it is full of lie.They keep relationship with you till they have work with you.
3) Selfish: This kind of people are highly dangerous and not eligible for any kind of relationship.

In my life, I ahve been dealing with all these 3 kinds of people and now, the maximum people in my life are from 1st category. After keeping myself from coaching classes and joining job in professional organisation, I met with at least 50+ colleagues but to speak honestly, I found only Supriya and Sujit in the first category. About others most of them were in second and third category. Thats why still I am in touch with them due to the same reason. I also have one more friend in the first and between 2nd category.

Now the question arise what are the essential for having a relationship? During my MBA lectures, I discussed it with Rama and Deepa and I gave final conclusion. For any successful relationships; having 3Ms are very necessary.

What are these 3Ms?
The 3Ms are : 1)Mutual Respect 2)Mutual Understanding & 3) Mutual trust

1) Mutual respect: This is very much necessary for any successful relation. It must not be one sided, rather it should be mutually. Whatever respect you give to people, the people must respect you equally. You never criticise the person the the eprson every time criticise you. You sacrifice your everything for the person, but the person is never ready to sacrifice anything for you. I have very good experience of this. Once, my one of friend used to work in Andheri and I was at fort. I usually would had reached to Thane by 8 PM while the friend used to reach by 9 even some time by 10. I waited every time but when once I told him to wait for me for half an hour, his reply was "I am not going to wait". When I reminded him about my waiting after hearing the same words many time, he replied "When did I tell you to wait?" It was most shocking and paining. He didn't had respect for anything whatever I had done for him. There was no mutual respect at all. Still our relationship continued for years till now recently (Still he is my friend but he has lost lot of respect from me due to his behaviour). Recently he got married, before that, every night whenever he had something to tell me, he used to call me to meet him irrespective of time, my tiredness and being a friend, I also used to meet him; but after his marriage, whenever I used to call him, he had excuses "I am tired", "I don't want to come". Finally, it was obvious that the person lost respect. Same has happened with my one friend. She was the first girl in my life whom I respected most. Whenever she called, I was there to listen her. I never gave any excuses, I supported her on her every move. Whenever she told not to speak with any girl, I accepted, whenever she told me that she want to live alone, I accepted. When I told her that I want to visit temple and I need her company, she said "No", Whenever I told her to meet me, I have some problem, she said "No". The reply was "I cannot go against my parents", "I cannot fulfil your every expectation". "You never respect my feelings", "You are very possessive" and so on.. This has done a lot of damage to our relationship.
Therefore, as a human, we have expectation. Whenever you fulfil the other person's expecation, you also have same expectation with them. There is nothing wrong if you expect the similar thing. Therefore mutual respect is very necessary. If you want to make relationship long lasting, you must respect the person mutually.

2) Mutual understanding: When you leave the sense of "I" only then you can understand each other mutually. Before doing anything, just put a simple practice:- What would you feel/ What you would have done if you were in place of that person.
If you follow this, you will develop the sense of mutual understanding and the relationship is always joyful and with bliss. I never say anyone wrong directly. It happens only if I am very angry. Previously, I used to tell wrong about everything but not now. Even if I feel jealous, I think first, do I really need to feel jealous?.

3) Mutual trust: You must trsut on the person whom you suppose your friend. If you give any way for doubt, it brings bitterness in relationship. You must not think, why he or she is talking with so and so person? You must not trust in someone's word if any comes and tells that XYZ has told some bad words about you. You must have full faith that whom you consider your best friend/ lover/ life partner is very nice (Unless he/she is dishonest/ disloyal to you and you have realised it).

That all for today

Discipline

2008-06-18T02:50:00.000-07:00

If we open our eyes, we have lot of things to learn from this world. When I started to write this blog, I had never thought that starting would be with the fighting for an unnecessary issue. I accept, I am a criticiser, but I don't think there is anything wrong to criticise anything which is wrong unless it is biased and targetted to a specific person.
I am very busy in work, exam therefore I could not write blog yesterday. One of known person to me (I don't know whether it is appropriate to say the person as a friend or not; since without knowing any fact the person blamed/alleged a lot of things on me; it was pouring blaming on me; the person told me highly inefficient in English langauge and my sentences are grammatically incorrect. I think, blogs are meant for expressing yourself, thats why I didn't pay much more attention on spelling and coherence of the sentence; but I think I need to pay attention over it)

Now I want to come to the main points. It is also a praise as well as a criticising. I am like this and people have to accept me in my original form.
Every day while boarding ST bus from my home and to my home I see people who are behaving in very inhuman manner. They don't stand in que, they enter into the bus through windows and emergency exit. They even don't care about conditions of women. They hold seat unnecessary and give it to only young girls. I don't know what enjoyment they get when a girl sits next to them. :)
But I have seen a very good practice of discipline in Thane Railway station. During pick hours (Morning 7 AM to 10 PM and evening 5 PM to 10 PM) trains are very packed and a person who is new in Mumbai cannot board train easily. For 5 days, I have been catching 9.14 CST fast originating from Thane. I observed that the ladies who wait to board 1st class compartment in this local train, they make ques and with full dignity and respect, when the train arrives, they board the train one by one. Without struggling for seat, without quarrelling. In the train, there is no one to ask you to stand in the que and to follow discipline, but these women have self decided how to live life with dignity and how to observe self discipline. I salute them. But other people (Women as well as men) everyday see them, but they don't follow whatever they have done. Its OK. But what will you tell to those people who are boarding Bhiwandi, Nalasopara, Kalyan and Vasai busses? Are we so selfish that we don't think about others? Are we so weak that we cannot travel by standing for 40- 45 minutes?
Perhaps human nature is like this who want to think about themselves only. They don't have care about others. I am also self centric but I believe, in some manner, I have sense to think about others. I am not wrong if I really criticise something which is really wrong

100 reasons to smile

2008-06-16T03:18:00.000-07:00

I always come across people who are dejected, betrayed and humiliated by people (Even I am not an exception). Everyone has similar complaints "Why we give a lot to people, sacrifice everything for thema nd in return we get nothing"
I am against f the old saying "Friendship and love is the relationship where we learn to give only not to expect anything"
Why ? Why should we accept this phenomenon? It is simply beyond understandable. I don't accept it. I believe, relationship is such thing in which, more you give, you will get more; and why the sacrifice from one side only? You sacrifice your everything, your reputation, your other relationship, your name and fame, your health, your hungernessm your career, your dream everything and in return what you get such reply
"Sorry, to be with you every time is not possible for me"
"I have to think of my family's reputation"
"I have never seen you from that way"
"sorry I cannot go against my parents"
"When did I tell you to sacrifice for me"
"It was my worst experience in friendship, now onwards I won't do friendship with anyone"

I don't understand stupidity behind using such statement. Everyone comes here with some expectation from each other. I believe, we are human first and other things later. As other have expectation from us, in the same manner, we have expectation from others and we are not wrong if we keep expectation from others.
I believe, we needn't to cry for such person who expects a lot from us and in turn never fulfil our expectation. We must take every incident as learning in our life, never to focus on any specific person. Even when we need to choose our life partner, as today's youth, we want to know everything about the person before marrying, I advice to marry with a friends only. The simple solution is take interest in knowing everyone who comes to your life, know about them, find more about them and to decide whether you can accept the person with his/ her drawbacks or not and without keeping any expectation, ask the person whether he/she is ready to be with you for life time or not.
Don't give time them to take consultation from others, since it is the person's life and the person must take decision by its own.
If you follow this principle, you needn't to cry every time. Give equal importance to all, don't expect with them at all and if you feel the person is expecting a lot from you, clarify them. Relationship is not sacrificing by one party, it is relationship of mutual trust, mutual respect and mutual understanding

In my 20 years staying in Mumbai, I had been never to boat in sea at Gateway of India. Yesterday was the first time with one of my friend I had been there and in entire way, we had the same discussion and same conclusion. Before this, I had sacrificed my sleep, hunger everything but yesterday, when I felt sleepy, I slept in train and said sorry to the friend who was with me for not talking and not being with that friend. I think, I have started to follow the principle, only to understand and respect but not to sacrifice and I don't think I am selfish if I do so

Thats why, when you have a reason to cry, you have 100 reasons to smile. Look at the life in positive way.

Regards
Govind @ KK

Relationship

2008-06-14T04:42:00.000-07:00

I don't know much time to get hurt. You fight with entire world for someone and in return you expect respect and value. But what you get is, desrespect and humiliation from the person every time. You know that person's every weakpoints but still you accept it, you cry and shout when it is beyod tolerable, you have to express yourself, you want to tell the person what do you feel. Still, without thinking about anything, you care the person. One day, you have to hear that you have done nothing or in other words, you are in wrong way. You expect some respect and care and the reply is "I cannot fulfil every expectation", "I thought friendship/ relationship means to complete your duty without doing any tally"
It becomes very shocking and beyod tolerable. Shouldn't we expect? If without thinking of rain, thunder, hot, sun, wind anything, you never tired by waiting and one day you expect the person to wait for some moment and instead of waiting the person has such reply
So harsh and so paining. If there is no Hisaab kitaab in relationship, it should be from both side, why from only one side
Come on.. I am not a non sense or fool. I have also desire, feelings, I also get feel hurt. Why should I sacrifice my life yar? am I wrong?
I know I am not wrong about it. I am not wrong here. I know, the person who behave in such manner, one day have to regret over this. May be, the person with full trust and believe get a life partner, but the reality will be so harsh, so paining, there would be nothing to regret and when the person will back here, everything was sifer, zero, nothing in hand and even after so much regretting the damage will be irrepairable. I don't want such suffering for any of my friends; but I cannot change the reality

Regards
Govind

Academic Performance V/s Actual performance

2008-06-13T01:05:00.000-07:00

Hi Friends,
I am always against of having book knowledge and lacking in practical knowledge. Since my SSC till today; when I am going to start career at reserach level, I had never supported anyone who have very highest mark in academic performance i.e. SSC, HSC, degree etc. Becuase I believe, by studying 8-10 hours daily anyone can get highest performance in exam. Take a simple example, since childhood, our parents daily chant the mantras (sometimes even I); we remember each word of it and we should not wonder if we can recite it before people. But is this means are we really genious, practically aware?
No, not at all. Even if I leave everything and study daily 5 hours at home, 5 hours at college and 5 hours in coaching centre, I can easily score 90% above. But what about the practical learning? Even scoring 90% and above, people cannot write a simple application letter, cannot fill bank form and admission forms?
Is this real learning?
I am happy that Mumbai mirror proved me correct. There were ny one friend who opposed me because I proved her that her brother is nothing much more than a bookworm since he did not appear for IIT exam (entrance) because "he had not preparation"; but he managed to secure 91% in HSC
I am also against of judging one's ability on the basis of academic performance. I am thankful to Mumbai Mirror who revealed that the HSC toppers are floppers in General Knowledge
The link is:
http://epaper.timesofindia.com/Daily/skins/MM/navigator.asp?Daily=MMIR&login=default&AW=1213343954859

http://epaper.timesofindia.com/Daily/skins/MM/navigator.asp?Daily=MMIR&login=default&AW=1213343954859

The time has come. We must accept the criticism if it is constructive. We have to accept that our education system is mark oriented not practical learning oriented. Our most students are actual book worms and not learners

Regards
Govind