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Saturday, February 4, 2012
Abhi Mujh me Kahin.. very meaningful song
It had been very long time I could not write anything to my personal blog.
There are many things in my mind but in a very short cut, I thought to post a very short postings about whatever is happening around me.
I was listening songs from Agneepath (in fact watched a special screening of the movie for our company employee)
I liked all the song except the Chikni Chameli. Ajay Atul deserve special congrats for creating something original and one of the best music. Amitabh Bhattachrya also deserve special mention for the excellent lyrics. All singers has sung the song well but out of all the song, one touched my heart a lot. I am posting it here. I found it very close to my heart.
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There are many things in my mind but in a very short cut, I thought to post a very short postings about whatever is happening around me.
I was listening songs from Agneepath (in fact watched a special screening of the movie for our company employee)
I liked all the song except the Chikni Chameli. Ajay Atul deserve special congrats for creating something original and one of the best music. Amitabh Bhattachrya also deserve special mention for the excellent lyrics. All singers has sung the song well but out of all the song, one touched my heart a lot. I am posting it here. I found it very close to my heart.
_______________________
Abhi mujh mein kahin
Baaki thodi si hai zindagi
Jagi dhadkan nayi
Jaana zinda hoon main toh abhi
Kuch aisi lagan iss lamhe mein hai
Yeh lamha kahaan tha mera
Ab hai saamne
Ishe chhuu loon zara
Marr jaaun ya jee loon zaraaa
Khushiyaan choom loon
Yaa ro loon zara
Marr jaaun ya jee loon zaraa
Hoo abhi mujh mein kahin
Baaki thodi si hai zindagi
Hoo…
dhoop mein jalte hue tan koo
Chhaya pedh ki mil gayi
Roothe bacche ki hansi jaise
Phuslane se phir khil gayi
Kuch aisa hi mehsoos dil ko ho raha hai
Barson ke puraane zakhmon pe marham laga sa hai
Kuch ehsaan hai,
Iss lamhe mein hai
Ye lamha kahaan tha meraa
Ab hai saamne.. isse chhoo loon zara
Marr jaaun ya jee loo zara
Khushiyaan choom loon
Ya ro loon zara
Marr jaaun ya jee loon zara
Dor se tooti patang jaisi
Thi yeh zindagaani meri
Aaj hoon kal ho mera naho
Har din thi kahaani meri
Ek bandhan naya peeche seh ab mujhko bulaye
Aane wale kal ki kyun fhikar mujhko kyun sataa jaaye
Ik aisi chubhan, iss lamhe mein hai
Yeh lamha kahaan tha mera
Ab hai saamne.. isse chhoo loon zara
Marr jaaun ya jee loon zara
Khushiyaan choom loon
Ya roh loon zara
Mar jaaun ya jee loon zara
This is really a motivational song. I love this
Tuesday, November 1, 2011
Never trust people blindly
Hi,
I do not know how to start and and what to tell
It was one of the worst human experience for me specially about YOU and your friend A.......
I never imagined such an inhuman treatment.
Whatever you do, I am never going to loose my originality and whatever I am, it also doesn't matter to me what kind of image people create for me because TRUTH is like a sunlight. in the darkness of LIE it might hide for some days but finally it is going to come out.
I tried to be honest in my way, action and relationship. YOU and ..... told everybody in the world that I HAD BAD EYES ON ..... (I do not want to take name as everybody from us know that about whom we are talking)
It is ridiculous. Tomorrow, you may say that I had bad eyes on YOU too.
My trust has broken one more time.
For me, CARE matters a lot. I am attached to everybody who shower care upon me and who UNDERSTAND me and sometime, it happens, people show that they RESPECT me, my value and THINKING and they PRETEND it. I blindly believe and I pay the price. I learn GREAT lesson from such people.
I honestly supported you when everybody, including your family members were against you. I did not care about my own family and the entire world and on the road I fought with your Jijaji for your rights and you were the person who was involve in giving bad name to me and my relationship. Was it your humanity? Well done.
Well, for me marriage was not just a name of husband, wife, roaming here and there and having sex. For me, it was a life long relationship of trust, care and respect which I say mutual respect, mutual trust and mutual care. How did you and A.... came to the conclusion that I had bad eyes on her, you only know. I do not remember any single incident where I tried to outrage her or your modesty (and as far as I remember, we were brother and sister). Yes, she was showing care, a lot of care and were "sharing" a lot of thing, so I used to do it, so I opened up my everything and so even I told her that it is better to marry a "known" person than an unknown. Where am I wrong if believing on her word "I feel secure and most comfortable with you, you are my every thing" I put proposal for marriage? Where am I wrong if as a true friend if I share her the possible danger or negative outcome of my marriage on the basis of my bad experience of the behaviour of my would be life partner and my that fear came to true? Finally I realised today that my knowledge about the person was wrong. So much cheating, so much backstabbing, so much infidelity, so much dishonesty in my relationship? I used to delete all the personal messages so people should not misunderstand and my messages with the half bakd truth was shown to everybody. If I need to have a bad eye on anybody, remember, I was and am in HR department,working with such an organisation where there were many women or girls and I could do anything. I never tried to take advantage of that. Why am I clarifying all these to you anyway?
Well, my sisters are great and caring enough that they never revealed this the BLACK truth to me not to hurt me. But finally of the various people with whom you both made my mockery finally opened this to me- knowingly or accidentally.
I used to trust you a lot and thought you are one of the most trustworthy person in my life. I was wrong. My family is the best who trusted me and nobody else.
Whatever A did was wrong but it has not harmed me at all. I am not a looser, neither my reputation has gone nor people have stopped believing me. They trust my honesty and I have many friends who are caring for me for years and accept my truth. But I had never expected such a rubbish thing from you.
Anyway, you are one of my greatest teacher. you have taught me to be very careful in choosing and trusting people and she has taught me to be very careful in believing people and to share.
Whatever we do, we get return for that in this world only. I am not sad, I am not in pain because whatever I got, got from here, whatever I gave, I gave from whatever I get from people. I get lot of care, trust and love from people so I am able to give the same things to others too and if few people do such thing with me, it does not make me negative rather it makes me more wiser and perfect.
Thanks a lot for your teaching and whatever you gave me.
Be happy
--
______________________________
"The world suffers a lot. Not because of the violence of bad people,
But because of the silence of good people!"
--Napoleon
Govind- 9960704146
URL: http://www.wix.com/hopegovind/homepage
Blog: http://simplygovind.blogspot.com
I do not know how to start and and what to tell
It was one of the worst human experience for me specially about YOU and your friend A.......
I never imagined such an inhuman treatment.
Whatever you do, I am never going to loose my originality and whatever I am, it also doesn't matter to me what kind of image people create for me because TRUTH is like a sunlight. in the darkness of LIE it might hide for some days but finally it is going to come out.
I tried to be honest in my way, action and relationship. YOU and ..... told everybody in the world that I HAD BAD EYES ON ..... (I do not want to take name as everybody from us know that about whom we are talking)
It is ridiculous. Tomorrow, you may say that I had bad eyes on YOU too.
My trust has broken one more time.
For me, CARE matters a lot. I am attached to everybody who shower care upon me and who UNDERSTAND me and sometime, it happens, people show that they RESPECT me, my value and THINKING and they PRETEND it. I blindly believe and I pay the price. I learn GREAT lesson from such people.
I honestly supported you when everybody, including your family members were against you. I did not care about my own family and the entire world and on the road I fought with your Jijaji for your rights and you were the person who was involve in giving bad name to me and my relationship. Was it your humanity? Well done.
Well, for me marriage was not just a name of husband, wife, roaming here and there and having sex. For me, it was a life long relationship of trust, care and respect which I say mutual respect, mutual trust and mutual care. How did you and A.... came to the conclusion that I had bad eyes on her, you only know. I do not remember any single incident where I tried to outrage her or your modesty (and as far as I remember, we were brother and sister). Yes, she was showing care, a lot of care and were "sharing" a lot of thing, so I used to do it, so I opened up my everything and so even I told her that it is better to marry a "known" person than an unknown. Where am I wrong if believing on her word "I feel secure and most comfortable with you, you are my every thing" I put proposal for marriage? Where am I wrong if as a true friend if I share her the possible danger or negative outcome of my marriage on the basis of my bad experience of the behaviour of my would be life partner and my that fear came to true? Finally I realised today that my knowledge about the person was wrong. So much cheating, so much backstabbing, so much infidelity, so much dishonesty in my relationship? I used to delete all the personal messages so people should not misunderstand and my messages with the half bakd truth was shown to everybody. If I need to have a bad eye on anybody, remember, I was and am in HR department,working with such an organisation where there were many women or girls and I could do anything. I never tried to take advantage of that. Why am I clarifying all these to you anyway?
Well, my sisters are great and caring enough that they never revealed this the BLACK truth to me not to hurt me. But finally of the various people with whom you both made my mockery finally opened this to me- knowingly or accidentally.
I used to trust you a lot and thought you are one of the most trustworthy person in my life. I was wrong. My family is the best who trusted me and nobody else.
Whatever A did was wrong but it has not harmed me at all. I am not a looser, neither my reputation has gone nor people have stopped believing me. They trust my honesty and I have many friends who are caring for me for years and accept my truth. But I had never expected such a rubbish thing from you.
Anyway, you are one of my greatest teacher. you have taught me to be very careful in choosing and trusting people and she has taught me to be very careful in believing people and to share.
Whatever we do, we get return for that in this world only. I am not sad, I am not in pain because whatever I got, got from here, whatever I gave, I gave from whatever I get from people. I get lot of care, trust and love from people so I am able to give the same things to others too and if few people do such thing with me, it does not make me negative rather it makes me more wiser and perfect.
Thanks a lot for your teaching and whatever you gave me.
Be happy
--
______________________________
"The world suffers a lot. Not because of the violence of bad people,
But because of the silence of good people!"
--Napoleon
Govind- 9960704146
URL: http://www.wix.com/hopegovind/homepage
Blog: http://simplygovind.blogspot.com
Thursday, October 20, 2011
Medical Council of India and single entrance exam
First of all, the move is worth to be welcomes due to certain reason I personally think
Education in India is a profit guaranteed business and the institutes run by politicians like Bharti Vidyapeeth, D Y Patil many "deemed Universities" who do not have even a quality infrastructure of running a college is making money by this way.
They float their own "entrance exam" where below the table you may need to pay lakhs of Rs. to do MBBS. And the result, when this MBBS pass out will come from the college his her first focus should be on getting return on this investment of 6 years and 40 lakhs. So he will prescribe unnecessary medicines, he will (I am using he for both male and female) ask for surgery every time, he will charge excess fee and the healthcare is now out of reach of 60% of masses in our nation.
The single entrance exam may control this and the admission may happen in pure merit basis (I am using MAY because these politician and businessmen ( both institute owners and students will find a way from it) may found a way from it. The chances of getting more deserving student are higher in the medical colleges.
I am against of removing negative marking because in our country, the aptitude test or the medical or any other examination pattern for entrance into a course is faulty. If negative marking will be there, the students will not opt for wrong answers and will choose only the correct answer. In this case those student who are just guessing and opting for the answer may not get entry into the seat.
Further, just a single entrance exam is not a solution. Here, the students should be given the option to choose 20 institutes in their priority list. There should a single selection committee and not at all any colleges should be allowed to take admission. Even for the management and NRI quota, the single committee should only have rights to select the candidate.
I do not think any MBBS seat remains vacant in any institute. When people are ready pay 36 lakhs and above for the entire MBBS course and the seats are sold like a hot cake for lesser price (and the patient finally pay the price for their education).
Out of this topic: The only way to control corruption in the education is to make entire education free in the country with stronger control in quality and selection with the
Education in India is a profit guaranteed business and the institutes run by politicians like Bharti Vidyapeeth, D Y Patil many "deemed Universities" who do not have even a quality infrastructure of running a college is making money by this way.
They float their own "entrance exam" where below the table you may need to pay lakhs of Rs. to do MBBS. And the result, when this MBBS pass out will come from the college his her first focus should be on getting return on this investment of 6 years and 40 lakhs. So he will prescribe unnecessary medicines, he will (I am using he for both male and female) ask for surgery every time, he will charge excess fee and the healthcare is now out of reach of 60% of masses in our nation.
The single entrance exam may control this and the admission may happen in pure merit basis (I am using MAY because these politician and businessmen ( both institute owners and students will find a way from it) may found a way from it. The chances of getting more deserving student are higher in the medical colleges.
I am against of removing negative marking because in our country, the aptitude test or the medical or any other examination pattern for entrance into a course is faulty. If negative marking will be there, the students will not opt for wrong answers and will choose only the correct answer. In this case those student who are just guessing and opting for the answer may not get entry into the seat.
Further, just a single entrance exam is not a solution. Here, the students should be given the option to choose 20 institutes in their priority list. There should a single selection committee and not at all any colleges should be allowed to take admission. Even for the management and NRI quota, the single committee should only have rights to select the candidate.
I do not think any MBBS seat remains vacant in any institute. When people are ready pay 36 lakhs and above for the entire MBBS course and the seats are sold like a hot cake for lesser price (and the patient finally pay the price for their education).
Out of this topic: The only way to control corruption in the education is to make entire education free in the country with stronger control in quality and selection with the
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
Why MNCs and top companies want graduates from top institutes
I didn't complete my University : Bill Gates .
I Stitched Shoes in childhood : Abraham Lincoln, .
I was the one who served in Hotels : OBEROI .
I was Conductor : Rajnikanth .
I worked at Petrol Pump : Ambani .
I Failed in class 10th : Sachin Tendulkar .
I was a Drop out n Keyboard Player : A R Rahman .
I Slept on a Bench & borrowed Rs 20 everyday from friend to travel to filmcity : Shahrukh khan
. I used to serve Tea to support my Football Training : Lionel Messi . .
Life isn't about finding yourself :) . Life is about creating yourself..
I will say
university degrees don't make you a good professionals still the people who are running this company wants university toppers. It seems they just want to take revenge from the toppers saying "whatever percentage you achieve in your degree finally you have to work for drop outs like me" :)
I Stitched Shoes in childhood : Abraham Lincoln, .
I was the one who served in Hotels : OBEROI .
I was Conductor : Rajnikanth .
I worked at Petrol Pump : Ambani .
I Failed in class 10th : Sachin Tendulkar .
I was a Drop out n Keyboard Player : A R Rahman .
I Slept on a Bench & borrowed Rs 20 everyday from friend to travel to filmcity : Shahrukh khan
. I used to serve Tea to support my Football Training : Lionel Messi . .
Life isn't about finding yourself :) . Life is about creating yourself..
I will say
university degrees don't make you a good professionals still the people who are running this company wants university toppers. It seems they just want to take revenge from the toppers saying "whatever percentage you achieve in your degree finally you have to work for drop outs like me" :)
Tuesday, October 11, 2011
My letter to Dean, FMS, Delhi
Dear all,
Govind
Perhaps this may not be a right way to discuss the topic in this way in view of some professionals here, still I thought to make it part of discussion.
Well, today I read an advertisement from FMS requesting people to apply as a visiting or guest faculty for FMS. I always wish to share my real job experience with management students so with great interest I read the advertisement. Finally, I sent my resume with them and possibly with an "unacceptable" covering letter through mail to dean@fms.edu.
the transcript is as follows:
Dear Sir,
First of all kindly accept my sincere apology as few of the words I am going to mention here may hurt you or you may not feel appropriate but I feel I must express my view on certain things.
When I read your advertisement inviting visiting faculty with my great interest, few words disappointed me (In fact this will disappoint most of my learned HR fraternity). Here, you were focusing more on the words like "full time", "first class" etc.
Well, to be very frank, neither I nor my HR fraternity working in very reputed and higher position accept the view that a full time MBA and academic performance give guarantee that the person will be success in professional life. Finally, it is individual talent which proves your capability as a successful entrepreneur and business decision maker. If the industry will subscribe your this view, then we have to ask most of the successful entrepreneur to step down as most of them are not highly educated. When a reputed alma matter like FMS calls for visiting faculty, the maximum emphasis should be on industry experienced professional AND NOT ON THE ACADEMIC "PERFORMER".
As an Human Resources professional for almost 6 years,I have interviewed thousands of candidates but I do not remember a single instances where a university topper or a "full time graduate" has succeeded to impress me that he/ she is better than the other candidates applying for that particular position.
Well, I am deeply interested to share my real life management/ business/ human resources experience with the future leader of FMS. Even if you do not consider me, it is not going to decrease my value and contribution to my job as neither industry nor me work on this stereotype now. I am very positive that I am well able to share my knowledge as a visiting faculty and to help the future leader of FMS.
Kindly refer my resume for further details to work as a visiting faculty. I have also attached snapshot of my profile to give a glimpse of my experience and area of exposure.
___________
I do not understand why do not we have a structured way of measuring one's ability? Why are we still behind the academic performance and nonsense "full time" degrees? I think we must change our this kind of mentality.
Well, today I read an advertisement from FMS requesting people to apply as a visiting or guest faculty for FMS. I always wish to share my real job experience with management students so with great interest I read the advertisement. Finally, I sent my resume with them and possibly with an "unacceptable" covering letter through mail to dean@fms.edu.
the transcript is as follows:
Dear Sir,
First of all kindly accept my sincere apology as few of the words I am going to mention here may hurt you or you may not feel appropriate but I feel I must express my view on certain things.
When I read your advertisement inviting visiting faculty with my great interest, few words disappointed me (In fact this will disappoint most of my learned HR fraternity). Here, you were focusing more on the words like "full time", "first class" etc.
Well, to be very frank, neither I nor my HR fraternity working in very reputed and higher position accept the view that a full time MBA and academic performance give guarantee that the person will be success in professional life. Finally, it is individual talent which proves your capability as a successful entrepreneur and business decision maker. If the industry will subscribe your this view, then we have to ask most of the successful entrepreneur to step down as most of them are not highly educated. When a reputed alma matter like FMS calls for visiting faculty, the maximum emphasis should be on industry experienced professional AND NOT ON THE ACADEMIC "PERFORMER".
As an Human Resources professional for almost 6 years,I have interviewed thousands of candidates but I do not remember a single instances where a university topper or a "full time graduate" has succeeded to impress me that he/ she is better than the other candidates applying for that particular position.
Well, I am deeply interested to share my real life management/ business/ human resources experience with the future leader of FMS. Even if you do not consider me, it is not going to decrease my value and contribution to my job as neither industry nor me work on this stereotype now. I am very positive that I am well able to share my knowledge as a visiting faculty and to help the future leader of FMS.
Kindly refer my resume for further details to work as a visiting faculty. I have also attached snapshot of my profile to give a glimpse of my experience and area of exposure.
___________
I do not understand why do not we have a structured way of measuring one's ability? Why are we still behind the academic performance and nonsense "full time" degrees? I think we must change our this kind of mentality.
Govind
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